iam tired to love you
By adhyz82
@adhyz82 (36249)
Indonesia
June 2, 2010 2:57am CST
thats was my thingking about my mind now. that iam tired to convince you that i need you, i love you and i admire you but sometimes you ignore me, you place me after your family, your cousin and after your business. maybe you need time that only me that always care and loyal to you
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10 responses
@adhyz82 (36249)
• Indonesia
4 Jun 10
med, i feel like what do you say but sometimes i think iam to be patient with her.sometimes i think she must understand me, not only i understand her. love means understand each other. msfarn, you are right too that love need patience but needs too how to understand our couple
@msfrancisco9369 (10002)
• Boston, Massachusetts
4 Jun 10
Yes Med. Loving is having the patience to wait. No rush. Just enjoy every single moment of the courtship period or whatever level you are in now. It's always love that heals everything with time! Have a lovely weekend Med!
@jaiho2009 (39141)
• Philippines
2 Jun 10
This reminds me of the song "i'm tired of loving this way"
If someone you love is taking you for granted,or the second best,you should think twice.
Love needs some sacrifices,i understand she loves her family and relatives,but she should consider about your feelings too.
Love fades and heart get tired of loving when someone we love is not worth all the love and care that we are giving.
They say...you will realize the worth of someone the moment you lost him/her.
Hope you can meet ends with your love one before it's too late.
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@jaiho2009 (39141)
• Philippines
2 Jun 10
If you were engaged for a long time and you are ready to settle down.
I suggest that you proposed marriage to her.
That's the only way i know you will weighed her feelings towards you.
Goodluck
@indahfth (11161)
• Indonesia
7 Jun 10
Never tired to love someone. If this is the person you love does not respond to you, you should ask for clarification. If you can not clear, the decision to keep waiting, or leave depending on you. There are times when we must take a decision which is very bitter. But if you believe and do according to your conscience, it must taste bitter. would not you feel.
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@msfrancisco9369 (10002)
• Boston, Massachusetts
4 Jun 10
Hi Adz,
Maybe it’s time that you pamper yourself with all the love and care that you deserve. I know it truly matters to be loved and cared by people whom we love but it’s frustrating when it’s not reciprocated. So, better enjoy loving and caring for yourself and when you are filled with it, it does not matter if you are loved back or not as long as you are capable of loving the person who makes you happy and gives meaning to your life. Don’t give up and never get tired of loving!
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@ada8may21 (2405)
• Philippines
2 Jun 10
Hello adhyz and rosie, I feel you guys because I also in the same situation. I've always consider myself as "Single but Taken... for granted". My beau and I would only talk maybe once a week or maybe once every two weeks. Even if he is not doing anything and to think we are far from each other. Its miserable but I could not say no and break up with him because I love him so much even if he is not giving much attention and time I still try to understand him and trust him completely ( i am trying).
Just like you rosie, I also hoping that after this miserable everything will be ok or at least someday he will realize about it.
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@rosie230 (1704)
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2 Jun 10
It is hard when you are in love with someone who takes you for granted I know how that feels, I am going through the same thing right now. I hope that it will get better, but I guess all we can do is wait for as long as we can, and hope that the situations will change for us all, and we can be as happy as others.
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@paula27661 (15811)
• Australia
2 Jun 10
It does get to the point that there is no more left to give. You may have been taken for granted and now you are tired. You are worn out from trying and not getting anything back. It is time for change, will you talk to your partner and explain how you feel, will you endure more of the same or will you walk away? The decision can only be yours but it sounds as though one has to be made. Good luck...
@nangisha (3495)
• Indonesia
5 Jun 10
Hi Adhiz......
I see that you really love that woman. Seem she not love you the way you love her. Woman usually put his man as first priority when they love him so much. I think its up to you if you wanna to give her time or not, because only you know how your feeling exactly.
@nangisha (3495)
• Indonesia
7 Jun 10
I think I am just analyse from my kind (woman) reacted to love and your girl reacted not show that she is in love with you. I think if you love her so much and you think she deserve to fight for, go ahead!. I think you are a good guy and I thinks its will be good idea if you let yourself to know more woman, so you have more choice than woman not truly love you .
@kimhoang79 (49)
• United States
2 Jun 10
Is it called loving then? For sure she doesn't love you and if she says she does, she's maybe confused. I don't know, that's just me.
But I feel for your situation though. I've been a fool in love too and it took me 3 years to get over it. Now, if I were to love someone, I would have to have proof that that person loves me too. If not, all bets are off! Too old to be chasing someone to hopefully love me. Love shouldn't involve that much chasing nor work. It should be natural and passive.
Good luck with you though. ;p