how do you handle dull moments in a relationship? / myLot

Philippines

June 3, 2010 3:02am CST

Hi mylotters, it's been ages since i had my last post here. I have been busy with my work. I am currently in my first serious relationship; and I was wondering for some advices, point of views if how do you guys handle moments in your relationship were you seem to lost the sweetness and the feeling of connectedness. Do you need to pull up some stunts,travel, arguments just to make it more interesting?

3 responses

med889

@med889 (5941)

•

3 Jun 10

To make it more interesting it, the relationship needs some activities like going for an adventure somewhere, going to dates as if they are not yet married, and making crazy plans as holidays on an island.

@jenzai (388)

• Philippines

7 Jun 10

crazy plan on island is one of the suggestion coming from my boyfriend. thanks for the advice.

vera521

@vera521 (7)

• China

3 Jun 10

I think argument is good for our relationship. After argument, we know eachother better.

jenzai

@jenzai (388)

• Philippines

7 Jun 10

Thanks, i agree with that part of arguments, the way i look at it relationship become that a bit dull because of some issues that was suppressed, so a little arguments might help to create a spark.

frontvisions101

@frontvisions101 (16043)

• Philippines

3 Jun 10

Just let the relationship flow. It's better off that way than planning it through then getting disappointed in the process.