demand of a boy and girl!

Cool as a discussion, I also want to be the last girl in my boyfriend's life and I know I will be because we are very soon going to get engaged now after more than four years of being together, however we never know the future so I always hope for the positive things in life though. He is the first in my life and he is very proud of this too and he says he has got what he wanted for his life.

here is my conclusion: the boy thinks or wants the girl to be inexperienced that is why wants to be the first in her life. however, the girl is experienced and had relationships in the past, finally wants to settle with the boy. they are both on line's ends. what they want is actually the total opposite. i hope, if ever there is a couple who is like this out there, they can work it out. it's what happens inside a relationship that matters.

What you spoke is a Fact which is actually the biggest secret in a teenager's life. Act Smart & Look Beautiful. Now a days i feel its very difficult to find a girl who has never been attracted to any other guy or had an affair or atleast an infatuation.

True love is trust without expectations

I think this is messed up. I think they should meet up together one day and talk about their interests and everything and see if they truly would like each other. This is just my opinion though.

IRONY,HUH!! Does it really matter if you're the first? Well, it matters if you're the last, but for me, it does not matter if I am the first, as long as we love each other and we get together well. That is even not to be talked about in a relationship or maybe the last thing to be talked about. Well, at least that is what I think about this..

Definitely. I think it's a stage of life. There's a point in life when boys aren't looking for someone to end up with same with girls who at some point in life get so gaga to get committed exclusively with someone as if everything's meant to last forever. Ironically, there will come a time when a man is ready to settle down and the woman feels like being single, careered and very successful feels liberating.

In this modern world,boys and girls have almost equal exposure and the chance for being the first is under question.There is no chance like that,I like to say.There may be more infatuations,untold loves and love failures.Current day boys and girls should see whether their partner will be honest to the relation.

I think that you are oversimplifying this way too much. If a guy falls for a girl just because she looks good, then it really is not love, is it? Besides, there have been plenty of times that I have gone out dressed in jeans, workboots or sandals, a top, no make-up, and my hair combed and either thrown up to keep it off my neck because it was hot or just combed but not all "done up", and I have just had fun and acted like myself and attracted plenty of guys. Also, I have children (so the guys are obviously not the first guy in my life) and that has never been an issue. On the other hand, I have seen guys with their hair all done perfectly, dressed up in a nice top, pants and shoes and wearing plenty of cologne and trying to attract girls by looking a certain way. I think that guys can be just as concerned with their looks as girls can, and being the "first" in someone's life is not really all that important. Now if you had said that girls and guys want to be the best in the other's eyes, then I would have to agree with you.

i dont that much of theory and i m not a pholosopher but i tell u one thing ALL THE GLITTERS ARE NOT GOLD. we have maintain our sincearity. Live like a legend. Love is a part of our life. Lover is a stage of young age. After getting some experiance with this realworld, you neglect the issues related with love. So my friend love and lover are only the virtual world. Any way i will APPRICIATE U.

Haha.. A very nice observation that I couldn't agree more with. I guess that marks the difference between a guy and a gal. But actually things like this only happens at the early stage of life foe the guy. In the end things would change, the boy will change his thoughts from being the first to the one and only. Cheers.

i think someone must first take a move then let us see what happens :)