Head Vs Heart who wins the most in your case ?
By tutul0045
@tutul0045 (2630)
India
June 3, 2010 2:01pm CST
Hey friends,
We have to make a lot of decisions in our life everyday. Some very important ones and some not so important but the common thing in all of them are that they either taken from the Head or the pretty Heart.
I know people who listen to their heart most of the time are usually the emotional type of people and at times that can be fatal. I personally take most of my decisions based on what my head says. I do make mistakes in life but i don't repent and believe that was the best available option that time.
So friends r u a head or a heart person? Which one on these 2 is more beneficial in your opinion?
Cheers,
Tutul
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5 responses
@mario_stevens (6971)
• Malaysia
4 Jun 10
my heart tends to win those little battles with my head... and it get's me in trouble most of the time too! 
@tutul0045 (2630)
• India
4 Jun 10
Hey,
Ha HA yes i also feel the same. And thats y its recommended that listen to your head also.
Cheers,
Tutul
@Mitraa (3184)
• India
30 Jun 10
A nice topic Tutul! Head versus Heart is the same thing as Wisdim versus Emotion. I feel that out of these two, Head (wisdom) must be given priority. But Heart (emotion) must not be ignored in any case, because without Heart, Head (wisdom) is meaningless! Real virtues of humans, if we analyse, is a combination of these two important factors (wisdom and emotion) in all ages of history! Knowledge combined with experiences, gives rise to wisdom. And likewise, relation combined with involvement, gives rise to emotion. As a whole, these two combine to form a complete personality!
In my case, wisdom wins in most cases than emotion. But I never ignore my emotion, rather protect it for betterment of my wisdom! Thanks for this analytical topic that is a rare in this forum!!
@tutul0045 (2630)
• India
30 Jun 10
Hi Mitraa,
Yes finding the right balance is very important. Too much emotion is not good. I have seen people who are very emotional and is the main reason why they don't get successful in life. Too much of anything is not good anyway!
I try to stay level headed and solve the issues amicably in my work front. Regarding family matters and the loved ones I tend to take decisions emotionally and thats where we can do very little.
I'm glad that u enjoyed my discussion and thanks for participating.
Cheers,
Tutul
@rosie230 (1704)
•
3 Jun 10
Well this is such an easy one for me to answer... I do what my heart tells me to, even though in my head, I know that I am making the wrong decision. I wish this wasn't the case, as it always sets me up to be hurt in one way or another, and I do think that if I could allow my head to make the decisions then it would be more beneficial for me, but that is the kind of person that I am, no matter how I try to change it.
@tutul0045 (2630)
• India
4 Jun 10
Hey,
So u r an emotional person. Sometimes its going to bite u. So get intouch with more practical people and that will be helpful in changing and making wise decisions.
Cheers,
Tutul
