Can similar discussions really be a bad thing?

@rosie230 (1703)
June 3, 2010 3:21pm CST
I have read a lot of discussions here over the last month or so, and I have come across a few that have moaned about the fact that people often write discussions similar to others, and that it was really annoying and gets pretty boring. The thing is, I don't actually think that it can be helped, I mean there are only so many things that we can talk about so really it is obvious that discussions are going to be similar. I don't have any problem with answering one post, and then doing another one that is talking about the same thing straight after. This site is all about discussing things, so in my mind so what if 2 or 3 people or even more, maybe opening discussions on the same thing. It is not something that can be helped, and with all the members here that use this site, how are we to know what every body may want to discuss with us all. I say just enjoy the discussions, whether you have heard them before, or whether they are about the same thing as a previous discussion you have answered, whatever it doesn't matter it's still good fun.
15 responses
@sallyj (1225)
• United States
4 Jun 10
I agree. So there are more than one, either answer just one or answer several, nothing saying you can or can not. So several people are thinking alike. Amazing
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@mysdianait (66009)
• Italy
4 Jun 10
If you answer several discussions which all have the same topic, you do so at your own risk. MyLot remove the repeated topics and all the responses go with them too. We do not earn for our deleted posts.
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@Hatley (163776)
• Garden Grove, California
4 Jun 10
hi folks why do not we think about the fact that we all have families with different problems and all the unused topics we can expound on here without copying anyone elses thoughts. Write about what you know and others will find it interesting too. be original as its fun.
@sallyj (1225)
• United States
4 Jun 10
There have been times when i start a discussion, post it and then there is one almost identical to it just below it. My thoughts and their thoughts at the same time, i am just slower than they are.
• Philippines
4 Jun 10
duplicate discussions aren't really that bad as long as it's not a blatant plagiarism of the previous ones and with so many of us here reading and discussing there's bound to be people thinking they can do better with the discussion and create a similar one with more details and in a more focused context. others simply didn't know a discussion was already made and as soon as the idea hit them decided to create a discussion so can't really blame them and i can't really say it's bad in fact i think it's great that there are a lot of dicussions with a similar vein to choose from :D
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• United States
4 Jun 10
Duplicate discussions are a violation of the guidelines. Similar discussions, on the other hand, if they are approached from a different angle or slant than previous discussions, are not a violation. There is a difference. We are all supposed to search for a topic and make sure that it has not been done ... or at least not in the way that we are intending to do it ... before we start a discussion. If we do not do this, then I think that we can be blamed, especially if the discussion is a duplicate discussion. Duplicate discussions will be deleted by myLot, even if nobody reports them as violations, and Admin has stated that they do keep track of what goes on here and will delete violations even if they have not been reported by a member. When these discussions get deleted, nobody earns anything. The responders will lose their posts, the time they took to respond, and will not earn a cent for it, so I do think that the original posters of the discussion can be held accountable for not adhering to the guidelines and wasting other people's time and money when they could have easily avoided it by searching for a topic before creating their discussion.
@meemingNEW (2226)
• Philippines
4 Jun 10
Similar discussions posted here in mylot has been an issue ever since its existence I think. I've been here for 4 years and its still the same. We can't really argue over that because like you said, they will come a point that people gets to share the same thing or idea and post it without thinking that it may have been posted already. But I don't think its a bad thing at all . Not unless he/she copied the discussion word for word.., that's against the TOS already. Again, I don't think its a bad thing since we all have different opinions about something. Best of luck
• Philippines
5 Jun 10
Thanks for choosing my response. I appreciate it. See you around.
@anklesmash (1412)
3 Jun 10
I don't think multiple identical discussions are a good think but as long as discussions have a different angle on a topic their can be numerous discussions on the same topic.
• United States
3 Jun 10
Exactly, Anklesmash! If you approach a popular topic from a different angle or put a different spin on a topic, then it is perfectly acceptable and can even be beneficial. It might inspire other people to think in another direction, too, or come up with a completely new and different idea on another subject. Even if it doesn't do that, it still gives people something new to think about and discuss.
• United States
3 Jun 10
Well, myLot tells us in the Guidelines http://www.mylot.com/o/guidelines.aspx and FAQs http://www.mylot.com/o/faq/faq8.aspx#1 not to start similar or duplicate discussions. How do you avoid this, you ask ... well, myLot provides the answer to that, too: "Before starting any discussion, search your topic in myLot to make sure you are not duplicating any discussions. We discourage posting discussions that have already been posted." In addition, myLot asks us to report violations when we see them. In the Guideline DOs section it states: "Help out when you can. The myLot staff tries to monitor the site constantly, but we also need your eyes and ears to catch problems when they arise and report abusive behavior." They further state in the DONTs section that abusive behavior is not only verbal abuse but also violations of the guidelines. Discussions that violate the guidelines do not need to be reported to Admin to be deleted, but they do ask our help to keep this site a nice place to be.
@mysdianait (66009)
• Italy
3 Jun 10
• United States
4 Jun 10
Yes, there are times when you can search for a topic and not find anything similar and yet once you post the discussion there are bunch of discussions that appear in the list of similar discussions. Sometimes they really do not have anything to do with the one that you started, and other times they do. When this happens once in a while, it is understandable and I think most users realize this and do not have a problem with it, especially if the two discussions do not sound like one was copied from the other. When it happens on a regular basis, on the other hand, it gets frustrating. The search function is not 100% fool-proof, but there are definitely discussions that anybody that has been on here for even a short length of time must know are duplicate discussions. The ones that can be answered by reading the FAQs, Guidelines and TOS are the most obvious ones not to mention that we are all supposed to have read these before we start to post anyway. Many of the "who or what is your favorite" types of discussions have been way overdone, and these types are generally violations. However, I still find some that are new. Yesterday, in fact, I had fun responding to one of those kind of discussions, because it was on a topic that I enjoyed and I had never seen it done before. I don't think that anybody is saying that every single discussion that is similar to another is a violation, because that is not necessarily true. I do think that the ones that are repeats, especially within a short length of time, are the ones that frustrate people the most. When you can look through a page or two of an interest and see multiple discussions regarding the same thing that gets very boring and aggravating, in my opinion.
• United States
4 Jun 10
Ah. i see you whip out the rules. I tend to search my discussions as well before I post, but sometimes, I cannot find similar ones and then later on, come across them. Then I feel bad. I respond to the 'old' similar discussions as well. It's not necessarily bad to have similar discussions, but it isn't something that is promoted.
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• United States
3 Jun 10
I haven't been here for very long but I think it would be impossible for every discussiong to be unique. I guess some people might have a problem if they start a discussion and someone else starts a similar one right afterwards because that would take responses away from them but not if it's a week or so later.
• United States
3 Jun 10
It is not about taking responses away from anybody as this is not a competition. You do not earn any more from discussions that have one response or a hundred responses unless you are active and keep participating in the discussion and on the responses. You earn from what you type not what others type. This is a discussion site, and it does not matter whether the discussion is a few hours old, a few days old, a few weeks old or even a few years old we are still able to add to it. In fact, there have been several times when older discussions from several years ago were commented on and all of a sudden a bunch more people responded and interacted on them.
@mysdianait (66009)
• Italy
3 Jun 10
The Guidelines tell us to search for existing topics before starting our own. That can be done using the search feature (and we might even receive a reward for doing it too). If we find one similar to the one that we intended starting, then we should go and participate in that one, not start another. We earn for our own activity wherever it is, regardless of whether we post a discussion or respond and/or comment on another one. Why clutter the place up with similar topics when we could just go and add on to one started previously? I'm also certain that there are hundreds, if not thousands of topics that have never been touched here, expecially considering that this is an international site. There is also no need to start new discussions every day when there are hundreeds of thoudsands of discussions that already exist and we can't possibly have posted on all of them yet.
• United States
3 Jun 10
It appears that we were typing at the same time, but you beat me to the post!
@cortjo73 (6498)
• United States
4 Jun 10
I agree Rosie! As long as people aren't taking a previous discussion and reposting it as their own, then why get all steamed up about someone else posting a similar discussion? There are only so many topics that we can come up with in this world. We all have basic needs that are all the same. We have to eat, sleep, work, play a little and spend money in order to do all of these things so, of course we are going to have similar or differing opinions on how to achieve all of these things and that will lead to discussing similar things. Now, if I took your entire post and made it into my own discussion, that would be wrong. But, if I started a similar one because I have thought about how mad people get at others for having a similar discussion, it would be nit picky for you to get mad at me. That being said, I haven't started a similar discussion. LOL! And, since I responded here to you, I wouldn't start a similar one either since I have said what I wanted to say. ;)
@Hatley (163776)
• Garden Grove, California
4 Jun 10
hi rosie I think so many forget we all have unique topics of our own that will bring our friends to our discussions when we tell about something that only happened to us a nd ask for help or for ideas about what should or should not be done. So many times I have used somersetting out of my own life and it has intrigued a lot of people.our stories are all a bit different to tell and share.We need not copy any one else and break a bunch of rules when we have material right in our own hands.
@krisnel (498)
• Philippines
4 Jun 10
maybe yes, because i encountered some discussions that are similar to others. when i respond to that discussion it will lead to some topic similar on that. if that happens, i never answer to that discussion.
• United States
4 Jun 10
they arent per say a bad thing because a topic can be elaborated on from so many different angles. So I say similar isn't a bad thing bacause there is always so much more to always learn
@crackx (628)
• Belgium
4 Jun 10
I agree that it isn't a bad thing, as it can always be fun. But recently I had two topics, difference in starting time was 5 min, both same object. Than it gets lame and you just want to skip it, but actually there are much worse things than that eh.
@annavi23 (6522)
• Philippines
4 Jun 10
i think sometimes it's really boring having the same discussions over and over again. sometimes i post and post to the same discussions over and over but seems tiring also. and as i've read in guidelines i think there must be something wrong with it. and you must have different discussions to make others more interested in giving their responses also. and i think we all deserve to talk about anything here,not the old same things over and over. have fun with mylotting!
@dayle59 (152)
• Philippines
4 Jun 10
just like you, i dont see anything wrong with those similar discussions..=)it just so happened that some people may have similar things in mind and that cant be avoided. sometimes, i think, it also depends on how they make their titles??!^_^ they may have the same topics but they could state it in a different manner..
@lgendrot (32)
• United States
3 Jun 10
I just had a discussion about a similar topic with a good friend of mine. I was arguing that there's only so many topics that can be written about that there is bound to be duplicate content somewhere. Anyway, I think the gripe that a lot of people have with duplicate content is that many people write the same thing that somebody else has written so that they can get the attention that the original writer did. It makes sense really. Especially if the original content is popular, I would assume that popular content has a much higher chance of being copied.