What do think of a battered woman do when she found out that.......

June 3, 2010 6:58pm CST
Unfortunately guys I was sadden when I heard a friend was a victim of battering. When I tried to ask her she just cried out loud that the man she love is an addict and loved hitting her most of the time. I was hurt because that man was happen to be my best of friend. I tried so many time to confront him but he always find a way to get rid of me when I attempt to open my mouth and open up the issue. What do you think guys I should do to help my best friend's wife. I want her out of him, do I have to put him in jail? or just simply help his wife run away for good. Air your views guys it may help to others having the same problem.
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6 responses
@basqui (3888)
• Philippines
4 Jun 10
If you're from the Philippines then seek the help of the social department to help you out in keeping the guy in jail for good. That's violence against women and it should be reported to the cops.
@joeboe (12)
• China
4 Jun 10
Strongly agreed with you!
• United States
4 Jun 10
just don't hurt noone
@agv0419 (3022)
• Philippines
4 Jun 10
You need to advice the wife of your friend that don't tolerate her husband and leave him if he still continuing to hurt her. She don't need to be martyr because there are authority who can help her why not report him to police.
• China
4 Jun 10
Maybe let the girl separate from her husband temporarily will be exert positive influence to their relationship.But if she can't bear the battering any more,leaving is a best choice.
@med889 (5941)
4 Jun 10
I think you should advise the woman to go very far from the man as she might be again facing such a situation if she stay with your best friend, some men are frustrated and they vent their anger on their wives, it is very cowardly to me and I think the only thing to to is to run from him.
• India
4 Jun 10
Husband and wife are like a pair of scissors. The one who comes between them gets cut. Your friend's love for his wife has crossed the limits of moderation. He has turned over possessive. The wife too loves him deeply. She will not bear to see husband being put to jail. She might turn against you and then you will find yourself in hot waters. Let them sort their own problems. They will either find tranquility in each other or both would separate. You just sit there and watch. Please do not get involved into their affairs. This is only advice I can give you.
@knicnax (2233)
• Philippines
4 Jun 10
You should get help from the police. make sure when you do, she's cant be touched by her husband again, because having him reprimanded will make him even angrier. If the wife wouldn't budge, try getting the husband into anger management classes.