Human Relations are Deteriorating Day by Day,Do you accept?

Hi Balu I agree with you. As you said, human relations are deteriorating day by day. I feel that when the cable TV was introduced, people started giving more importance to the TV serials and other programmes telecasted in it. and during that time if any relatives/friends visit their home they do not give much importance to them and basically they do not like their visit. In the same way they also minimised their visits to their friends/relatives house. At home also give less importance to the family members and their needs.

hi baluyadav, i think this is happening to some but not to all people. coz i am still seeing families/relationships that are still well bonded. sometimes what we just lack is communication and maybe due to this kind of lifestyle that we have now that makes it looks like this. but only if we will learn to set priorities and give more importance to people around us more than anything else i guess we can keep the relationship values between us.

What you say is very correct. The world is becoming more materialistic and selfish. People are becoming self-centered. Everywhere corruption and favoritism is spreading like wild fire. In this scenario, where will human relations sustain?

I disagree whole heartedly, although sometimes it does seem that way. We get out of relationships what we put into them. They don't just happen on their own, they need nurturing and care to grow and thrive. Just like plants, if they aren't tended to, fed and watered, and of course given a good dose of 'tender loving care', they they too will wither and die.

Nope - I dont agree! Biblical times, - Caine killed Abel! They were brothers! In our own Mahabharatha, it is cousins fighting for kingdom or revenue fetching property! Lets look a more recent stuff, Chatrapati Shivaji, he was coronated as an emperor, and was a very smart man, because he could outsmart Aurangazeb! His second wife had him killed because he wanted to coronate the first wife's son! Her own husband! In contrast, Lady Di just took the divorce money, and let go! I think because population has increased considerably, we are now able to see such things quite closely. Earlier, people stayed at a distance. Our ability to witness things at close quarters makes us think so.

hi Balu..! i do kind of agree with you, but then as the world evolves, so does human interpersonal relationships. what may be considered the norm now due to necessity may have been frowned upon in years past. sometimes it only appears that one has lost some of their attention on the appropriate values within a relationship, but who are we as outsiders to really judge them? there may be a good reason why anybody acts and behaves in a particular way. respect & tolerance can be shown in a lot of ways nowdays..

I don't accept this cuz it's not true to all people. Maybe some but not all.

Before 30-40 yrs, the stories we used to hear about interpersonal relations; we dont hear those now a days. The affection a friend showed in those days, rarely seen now. The attachment withing a family in those days, is not seen now a days. In our childhood, for recreation we had a transistor radio at our home. there were some times, specially during news; only father used to listen that. Now look at your home. TV, Computer, internet, tv game, vdo game, cellphone..., so many things.All our family members are busy with these gadgets.Hardly they have any time to look at others. So when there is interaction time? The electronic gadgets have taken us away from ourselves. In those days, wherever we used to be, during meal times we all used to be at home for lunch and dinner. Taking food together is a great mode of maintaining and developing interpersonal relations. In those days there were less restaurants and fast food shops. Now at every corner of streets, you will find them. The education system, in our childhood we had three or four books. we used to get enough times to mix up and play with friends. Now look at your child, he cannot carry all his or her books together. For this reason, he remains too busy for his class or school preparation. He does not get time to mix up with friends or even with neighbors. The general requirement level of all of us has gone high. We want money, good job, car, flat, etc etc. Everyday our requirement level is going high. The desire to full-fill these, also makes us aloof from each other. We are getting self centered and always counting self developments. Dear friend, whom will you blame? These social crisis is a bi product of modern lifestyle. However, you raised an important social issue. Thank you for reminding me our old gold days.

Well true, human relations are getting affected day by day. The life style has changed a lot and so the relationship lost its value.