I was dreaming of my boyfriend but he was a different person.
By laydee
@laydee (12798)
Philippines
June 4, 2010 1:45am CST
I'm wondering if you guys could help me out of a particular dream that is disturbing me the whole day today.
I was dreaming about my boyfriend last night. He was himself, here at my parents' home. I was cooking downstairs and he was upstairs assembling a pc unit or sound system. It was vivid to me as to what he was doing and how he looked. Then after cooking my parents told me to call my boyfriend down for dinner. Then when I went upstairs, it was another person doing what he was doing. It was weird because the person was the exact opposite of him. The new guy was short, about my waist level, dark skinned and had white ears. It was weird. Then he told me that all these years he was actually hiring actors to talk to me and be with me because he was afraid that I might be frightened of him.
It was crazy really but it felt so real then I started crying and went down and told my parents that I was in love with a lie for the last 5years. To which I woke up and was really really freaked out.
What do you guys think of that dream?? I am disturbed really.
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12 responses
@qianyun6 (2067)
• China
5 Jun 10
Aha, that's only a nightmare, everything would be OK when next day came. Right? Try not to think about, you'll forget it soon. If you can't ignore it, look your boyfriend carefully, caress him, even pinch him to confirm whether he is a human or a monster, the truth will tell you it's only a nightmare.
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@jagjit273 (1754)
• India
5 Jun 10
well it was a weird dream and thank god it was a dream only.You are saved.have a nice day
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@sweetseoul (732)
• Philippines
5 Jun 10
Probably you're just scared that your boyfriend is unfaithful to you that's why it manifested in your dream.:)
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@laydee (12798)
• Philippines
6 Jun 10
True. I don't think there's anyone in a relationship who's not afraid that someday things would be different because of unfaithfulness.
I just hope that everyone would be respectful enough to not woo people who are in a relationship. But I doubt everyone feels this way. There are a lot of women who just want to win the challenge by wooing even obviously married people - they are selfish.
@Cutie18f (9546)
• Philippines
4 Jun 10
That was really weird. Are you, perhaps, in your sub-conscious scared that he might change? I am sure the problem is not with him. It's you because you were the one who were dreaming. At the back of your mind you must have this feeling of fear of finding him changed or a different person. This fear has manifested itself in that dream of yours. Just relax.
@Alan70pct (171)
• China
4 Jun 10
Aha,that's a funny nightmare.From ur dream,I dare to say that u love ur boyfriend deeply,right?He is an excellent boy I think.
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@laydee (12798)
• Philippines
6 Jun 10
Indeed I love him deeply. But perhaps our distance is causing me to think too much and fear too much of losing him. But I know that worrying won't get me somewhere. I'm just glad that I could talk to him about my worries and he is patient and understanding enough to listen and laugh with me about these insecurities.
@sierraW17 (5)
• United States
4 Jun 10
I've actually had a dream kinda like that myself about my boyfried, i know it will freak you out at first but its nothing to worry about it really is just a dream if you both have been together for 5 years now a dream like that shouldn't affect you.
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@owlwings (43910)
• Cambridge, England
4 Jun 10
Your dream expresses a doubt that you normally hide from yourself. You are afraid or concerned that your boyfriend is not what he seems at the moment and may change when you are married. Not, of course, into a black dwarf with white ears - that was just your mind finding a ridiculous image so that you remembered the dream - but people do change once they feel secure in a position, as you are probably aware.
I should talk this dream through with your boyfriend. There is no need to be too serious about it but treat it more as a weird dream which, all the same, says something about your concerns for the future. Perhaps he, too, has worries that you will change: girls, for example, very often become like their mothers!
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@laydee (12798)
• Philippines
4 Jun 10
I am trying to talk to him about it, but I don't want him to know that perhaps the dream was brought about a comment of my guy cousin the other day when he said that perhaps I should try to look for another boyfriend because of my boyfriend's past. I think it just affected me big time which is the cause of the dream.
@srganesh (6340)
• India
4 Jun 10
!That was just a nightmare and you can ignore it as well.But if you want to research it further,you will get varied answers from different people.Well,my line of story is,"you are losing interest on your boy friend and even you are doubting his personality and you think him of a cheat too".1 person likes this
@med889 (5941)
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4 Jun 10
I think you have been disturbed for quite a long time about your relationship, it must be some insecure feeling which was with you, or maybe you are not sure about something might be pretty in your relationship with your boyfriend though, however I will say that dreams are dreams after all. They do give us a hint of something but they are not completely true.
@laydee (12798)
• Philippines
4 Jun 10
I was actually concerned about it when I was talking to a guy cousin about my boyfriend's past (because of some topic we were talking about) and then he said, "Why not consider looking for someone else?".
I was sad with the comment and I didn't know I was affected that much until that dream.
@suryacool (106)
• India
4 Jun 10
Hey dear, its just a silly dream. Don't let your relationship get affected coz of a dream. Just forget it as u have never seen it. I guess you watched some movie of that sort or read some book like that, which in some way came in ur dream. Anyway, whatever may be the cause, u just ignore it. And even if u remember it, have a good laugh coz its too funny
@knicnax (2233)
• Philippines
4 Jun 10
This is a nightmare! haha. anyway, if you've watched Walt Disney's Cinderella, there's a part there where cinderella sings ?A dream is a wish your heart makes when you're fast asleep? I'm not saying that you wish for your boyfriend to turn into an imp, I'm just saying that there is something about your dream that your heart feels strongly about, or you have been affected deeply. It could also be something you did/experienced/saw/thinking about before you went to sleep.
It could be that you are somehow feeling betrayed by your boyfriend and you watched a fantasy movie before sleeping, all of which jumbled and turned into one heck of a nightmare.
@laydee (12798)
• Philippines
4 Jun 10
Hmm... I think you're right, perhaps it was really influence with what I was thinking about before sleeping. We didn't really see eye-to-eye before going to bed last night, perhaps that's why I felt that he was 'different' thus became an imp in my dream.
But still... It's really creepy.
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@babyanna (1216)
• China
4 Jun 10
Hey,come on!It's just a dream.We all have nightmares sometimes.Maybe you are just a little afraid because of the distance between you two.But you should believe him.I believe he loves you.Don't doubt too much about your relationship.
Have a good day and take care!
