What would you do if your BF or Husband cheated on you?
By akosikulebs
@akosikulebs (54)
Philippines
June 5, 2010 4:41am CST
When people enter into a relationship, aside from love there should also be trust and respect between the two of you. But what if he cheated on you? would you be willing to give him another chance if he beg for forgiveness and promised to change? Or once is already enough for you? It hurts to be cheated upon but its also hard to let go of someone you truly love. what would you do?
5 responses
@shawntae54 (14)
• United States
5 Jun 10
I would not stay with someone that cheated on me personally. Once they've tasted another persons kiss and did things together I'm done. The trust and bond has been broken. If I were to forgive them I would always be wondering when they would mess up again? And who wants to go through that? You would probably find yourself haunting their every foot step and who wants a life like that? Not healthy. I'd say move on to someone who treats you right and blows your mind...
@akosikulebs (54)
• Philippines
8 Jun 10
it's really hard to pick up the broken pieces. and if you no longer trust a person, it is best to stop the relationship. but, if the person deserves a second chance why not give it to them? but they should know that it will be their second and last chance. if they mess up again, that's the end of everything. there are certain decisions in life that is really hard to explain.
@lologirl2021 (5542)
• United States
5 Jun 10
I was in this situation a little over a year ago. It was the worst thing ever, all i did was cry and just wonder why he did it to me. There were so many girls i always questioned about, but then i figuered it out and he was just lying to me. His best friend doesn't even talk to him anymore because he doesn't like the person he is.
Hurting someone like that hurts them very bad and your heart just hurts all the time. I was on depression medidcine for a little while and i was just to much of a happy outgoing person to be on that so i just grew out of what happened and moved on with my life. I have found someone that treats me amazing and he is my life now.
@rhinarea (311)
•
5 Jun 10
I will let go of him if i'm in that situation, Yes i love deeply but if the man i truly love cheated on me i guess he is not worthy of my love, i wont give him another chance once he did cheat he will possibly do it again. It will be painful i know but i love myself more and i don't want to hurt again and again once is enough twice is too much.
@abhi000 (235)
• India
27 Jul 10
If my boyfriend cheat on me I will let him to go and I will never keep relation with him because if he cheat how can our relation last, we have to naturally depart from each other and I don't want to see his face again.Eventually I will never let him to speak anymore.How can you stay with the cheated person. Can you stay for long time?
