If you love someone more than life, and he loves you not....

I think love has different meanings for different people. some people mean to get every thing in love and some people think that to give every think what they have. but when you love some one and in return you are not getting love or the 2nd party is in love with some one else then i think, let her/him go and see will he come back or not?? because if he/she is real lover he will return other wise he was playing with your emotions and it better to leave such person. but atleast you should once tell him/her that to not to do such kind of things because you love him/her. take care of your self and thanks for the discussion

Love is not a commodity that is sold in the market.It is an emotion and a natural feeling that comes straight from the heart.If you love a person truly but he does not love you then you should let him go.True love is sacrifice.If you want to see the person you love really happy then you should release him otherwise he will be unhappy and his unhappiness will reflect in you and also make him miserable.If he loves someone else then release him and you will earn his blessings and good wishes.One day you will find somebody who really loves you as you loved the other, and he will give you true happiness, which you deserve.

i would like to say that i would just let him go and be happy with someone else but i know from experience that it's not that easy. well, it was a little different for me as i loved someone and he loved me back too but he wasn't willing to fight for me. i wanted to hold on to him for as long as i could and i know that i was only making it harder for myself and i'm just hurting myself, but i just couldn't make myself to let go. i know that him not fighting for me means that he didn't love me as much as i loved him. in the end, i still knew that i had to let him go. but not because i would like to see him with someone else but because i knew that holding on to him wouldn't do me any good. it would only hurt me and stop me from seeing that there are better chances at love.

It's impossible to 'make' someone love you. It is a partly a choice to love someone and you cannot expect a real relationship from someone whom you only made to love you. Your best bet is to be the best person that you can be, to be there for that someone you love and to not expect, just enjoy the relationship that you have with that person. You have to let him free. If it is too difficult for you to have any other kind of relationship with him, if friendship will not satisfy you, then maybe you can go away and think about things a bit.

As i love him so i will be happy if i see him happy. So i will do the things that make him happy. I will not force him to stay with me if he doesn't want to stay. But i will not quite because i can't. But i will try my best to expose him that i love him so much.

If your affected with the situation, just don't bother to make another move that might probably worsen the situation. Love is not a simple game that one may join and then leave if already burdened by the situation. One thing my friend, if your really love that person. Do whatever it takes to win that person back in your presence again. Me and my girlfriend always argue everyday, but before the day ends we see to it that each one of us are clear in conscience and guilt. that's why we are still together for 4 years now. hopefully you can fix your problem soon... Wish you all the best...

icesmile, Love is freewill; true love cannot be forced upon by threat, violence, demand, anger, abuse, terror, fear, guilt or habit. If it does, the relationship will no doubt be intense and unfulfilled. This is but the very rudimentary understanding in Love - that we all must see the logic, in which Love is a choice and the choice made to stay in a relationship must be attributed to the individual's freewill. If not, misery will follow suit closely. You seem to believe that a change in environment or circumstances or hard work on your part can bring about the change in one's partner, and thus effect the changes to a relationship. But the truth is that Love is an inside thing, not outside job. If an environment or circumstances or hard work on your part could so effortlessly affect the Love in a person or the person personally then, I am afraid to say that it basically goes to suggest how enervated and languid this Love one claims to have. Love is multifaceted, multidimensional and omnidirectional - it is definitely not as linear as how you have expressed it. If your claims are correct, then Love is only entitled to the chick with the hottest bod with the prettiest face, as well as the dude with the most cash and assets. Hence, when you are dissatisfied with something about your situation, or differences with the relationship or the other then you must learn to evolve your weakness and vulnerability into something more manageable. If you want to change your fate or situation, then logically you must first work to change it. If not, you are just plain ranting and at the end of the day, will get you nowhere. To me, it seemed to me that you just want a boyfriend. But if you can’t even be attentive to yourself, then I think the odds will stack much higher against you. For, without Self Love, there can be no Love. There will never be any one loving more than life to love the other. Everything has its equilibrium which one should remember and live accordingly to it. Take care.

Hi, Ice! It's been a while! I don't think you can make anyone feel about you as you wish they would. If they're not responsive, all you can do is move on. People's emotions go only whre they wish, not where we wish.