There are no Coincidences in the World, Do you Believe in that?
By carlynganda
@carlynganda (749)
Philippines
8 responses
@mokkka (881)
• Bulgaria
6 Jun 10
I am sure that there is some kind of a plan for us all that cannot be changed no matter what we try to do.It is in a way destiny but not only because there is a saying that Destiny is not a matter of chance but a matter of choice so sometimes we may change it a bit with the actions we take but it later again goes into the direction which is said to be ours.
@carlynganda (749)
• Philippines
12 Jun 10
i think whenever we are making a decision, we always find ourselves standing at a forking road where there are 2 or more roads to take..each road is loaded with different experiences but they all have the same outcome..so that is where "no matter what choice we made" we will always end up where we are suppose to be and i believe in that..so we better enjoy our journey all the time..
@Qaeyious (2357)
• United States
6 Jun 10
No, that is no longer my belief. In early childhood I was the receiver or victim of my parents' decisions, and as I grew into adulthood, more responsibility fell on me. When my parents no longer made my decisions, I was the architect of my own life, though I still sought guidance from others, both friends and relatives. But the final responsibility is on me, and me alone. The decisions I made, and the resulting consequences. Not my siblings and their history, not my parents or ancestors and their history, not to any god or universal entity worshiped by random people wherever. Good and evil comes randomly and I can only handle whatever comes to me.
And I'm not doing that badly. The law of averages are with me so far. If there comes a time where the favors turn, I will deal with them at that time. But still that will be my decisions at the time of whatever situation comes up. Whether they work or not, only the results will tell at that time.
In other words, you are where you are. If you like it, enjoy it. If you don't, do something to change it. If it doesn't work, do something else.
It is your own responsibility, as long as you are an adult.
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@carlynganda (749)
• Philippines
12 Jun 10
well this is a good point: if we don't like where we are now, then we have to do something to change it..and if doesn't work, do something else..we will never run out of resorts to change the way we live our life..
@Qaeyious (2357)
• United States
6 Jun 10
No, that is no longer my belief. In early childhood I was the receiver or victim of my parents' decisions, and as I grew into adulthood, more responsibility fell on me. When my parents no longer made my decisions, I was the architect of my own life, though I still sought guidance from others, both friends and relatives. But the final responsibility is on me, and me alone. The decisions I made, and the resulting consequences. Not my siblings and their history, not my parents or ancestors and their history, not to any god or universal entity worshiped by random people wherever. Good and evil comes randomly and I can only handle whatever comes to me.
And I'm not doing that badly. The law of averages are with me so far. If there comes a time where the favors turn, I will deal with them at that time. But still that will be my decisions at the time of whatever situation comes up. Whether they work or not, only the results will tell at that time.
In other words, you are where you are. If you like it, enjoy it. If you don't, do something to change it. If it doesn't work, do something else.
It is your own responsibility, as long as you are an adult.
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@prinzcy (32305)
• Malaysia
6 Jun 10
I believe everything happen since it's pre-written by God. Where we will be, what we will do, choices and decisions - everything is already set. We just move it it motion. It's better not to know what in store for us. Besides, everything happen for a reason as God state it.
@Baluyadav (3643)
• India
18 Dec 10
hi,i don't agree.It is practically possible many ways in many issues....love,love failure stories...Mechanical and chemical and electronics developments...human nature...floods..predictions against future...
@xeroeight (1060)
• Philippines
6 Jun 10
I agree to you, I also believe that everything is planned by our creator, but we humans has the power of free will and the power to choose what we want in our life and that is the reason why the plan of our creator for us is ruined and some of the lives of human become miserable and destroyed.
Now that we have the second chance to follow what is the plan of our creator for us I hope we will not choose the wrong path just like the others.
For me the I think only plan of our creator for us is a peaceful life, in every day of our life we always have the chance to choose from 2 path so all we need is to choose the right path for us.
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@carlynganda (749)
• Philippines
12 Jun 10
i guess that everyone already knows which one is the right path..the only thing is that some people are looking for extra adventures which leads them to taking the wrong path..
@ruthhazel (213)
• Philippines
16 Dec 10
i believe that everything has a purpose. there is no an accident. that's what I believe.