Finally, I think I may be in Love!!
By bonnie
@bunnybon7 (50973)
Holiday, Florida
June 6, 2010 4:02pm CST
Thats why ive been missing so much on here lately. Ive met a very nice man on pogo .com. where you get to chat on the side while you play games. I had dressed my mini for the holiday, Memorial Day, with the caption below of "for John of 101st airborn" which is my late hubby. a guy there that did 3 tours in viet Nam himself thought i was speaking of my son and sent me emails asking all about it. we connected also on facebook from there, then regular emails and now he says he loves me anyway, we will see. he seems quite nice so far and very much like me. but,this has happened before a couple times only to turn out not right. Wish me luck..lol. although he lives clear in NH. very far from here. I'll keep you updated. also, surprisingly another friend here informed me she met her hubby in the same place so, who knows. now, have you met your spouse/partner in an online site or strange place like this?
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@catdla1 (6005)
• United States
7 Jun 10
I wonder who you are talking about...lol.
New Hampshire? I'm jealous, that's my favorite state. My son and I used to go there every year for our vacations, and had wonderful times. Mostly we gold panned...did you know that there's a major vein running between NH and VT?
Good luck, and let me know if he has a friend...lol
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@bunnybon7 (50973)
• Holiday, Florida
7 Jun 10
hey you 2 , you are always the fun people. im sure we'd have a ball. what do you mean? people pan for gold there? i didnt know that. he did say it was a very small state and rural mostly. i need him to send some pics. he sent me a bunch of the italian carneval because i told him how much i love masks, i used to collect them. i need to ask him if he could take pics of his place. im not to much hep on living out of town. im a pure city girl Deb, i thought you was taken? anyway, it is more fun to party out in the wild or mountains. i could go for that. lets go...yyyaaayy!
@catdla1 (6005)
• United States
7 Jun 10
WooHoo! Party forming in New Hampshire! Better plan it up in the White Mountains, where there are fewer people. Hmmmm. Maybe not though. Could be too much of an echo. LOL
I can just see news reports of 'strange noises' issuing from the high country. Purported alien sounds, or a NHH version of Bigfoot would be welcomed for the tourism dollars. I wonder if the state tourism dept would pick up our party tab??
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@bunnybon7 (50973)
• Holiday, Florida
8 Jun 10
oh thank you Dawn, i know you've been through a lot lately and i can only hope this happens to you. cause i think its going to be great for me and him.
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@MsTickle (25180)
• Australia
14 Jun 10
How I wish I could play on Pogo. I can't win prizes for a start and for some reason I just sit and wait a lot of the time and nothing happens. I have no idea how to talk to people.
I'm really happy that you have an interest in your life that's better than myLot but I have to say sweety that it worries me that he's telling you he loves you. That sounds awfully needy. It's just too soon. You should be friends first and see how that develops over time. I know you are starved of affection and attention but please take things slowly and be prepared to jump off if things get uncomfortable.
@MsTickle (25180)
• Australia
14 Jun 10
Hi bunny. I've managed to find a couple of games on Pogo that I can play...shame I can't win anything...we don't have Pogo here.
I know you will be careful, I just worry for you...you would do the same for me
The fellows I have met over the last few years have all had serious defects. They are mostly from broken marriages and it seems their wives have left (probably after years of neglect and getting fed up) and they don't know what has hit them. They won't take any responsibility for what went wrong in their marriage. They want to be looked after or they have a real dislike of women...in other words, they don't have a clue how to be a grown up in a grown up world or how to treat a woman.
I wish you luck and I wish you joy.
@bunnybon7 (50973)
• Holiday, Florida
14 Jun 10
dont worry i know you are my friend and are concerned. but we have been doing a lot of talking on the phone and on pogo and im getting to know him pretty good. he is a lot like me in many ways. so dont worry friend. iam very careful. he is also kind of wanting of affection he hasnt had. i hope you are able to talk with some nice man some day, just for you
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@bunnybon7 (50973)
• Holiday, Florida
16 Jun 10
sadly that is why ive been so careful and suspicious of all men. before my late hubby, thats the only kind i met. ones that didnt know how to treat a woman. so i was surprised at the kind of great guy he was. now im hoping theres got to be a few more out there like him, right?
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@ANTIQUELADY (36440)
• United States
7 Jun 10
HI BON, Don't want to rain on your parade but please be very careful w/what u are doing. I know people do meet mates like this but i have always been very leary of this. Don't want to hurt your feelings but i don't think u fall in love that quick but i'm sure not a good example w/relationships. hugs. jo
@ANTIQUELADY (36440)
• United States
7 Jun 10
I am just worried about u, Bon. I'm sure it is nice to have a guy to talk to & i hope it all goes well. Ih he wants to meet u let him come to u. Don't want u to go trapising off to unknown places. I'm anxious to know what your son thinks about it.
@bunnybon7 (50973)
• Holiday, Florida
7 Jun 10
oh that was just my title to draw interest and opinions. i know im not total "in love" in love i should have said i "might" be in love finally. im sure many of my friends here are concerned but, im old enough and wise enough not to just jump into something thank friend. dont worry.
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@bunnybon7 (50973)
• Holiday, Florida
7 Jun 10
he is saying the same as you but im thinking he might not like the shoes on the other foot in a way. no im making him come here if we meet, but dont think that will happen for a while we will see. thanks again for your concern dear friend.
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@starsailover (7829)
• Mexico
7 Jun 10
Hi bunny bon: Well congratulations! Of course, I wish you the best of lucks and hopefully, he'll be the man of your life. I appreciate love and I'm glad to find that a person has finally found love in their lives.
For me this is not a weird situation because I think love is one of the greatest wonders of the world and the best gift God gave us so... why not? If love knocks on our door why don't you open the door? Lol. XD. I can tell you any experience because I'm still single and waiting for love but I wish everything will be just nice. Thanks for sharing with us this situation. Have a nice day. Blessings.
ALVARO
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@bunnybon7 (50973)
• Holiday, Florida
7 Jun 10
well in this day and age, Alvaro, we seem to have access to the world. i do hope you find that true soul mate of yours out there soon. especially if you are looking hard like ive been doing.
@magykbuzz (43)
• Indonesia
7 Jun 10
Congrats bunnybon7, i wish you all the best. Hm....i don't have partner and never meet one that would be through online world. Wonder what it feel to fall in love :D
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@bunnybon7 (50973)
• Holiday, Florida
7 Jun 10
well friend you are still quite young and hopefully will only fall once with someone that will be perfect for you. but you may be like me and have it happen many times before the right one. hope yours is the right one right off and wonderful.
@gabs8513 (48686)
• United Kingdom
7 Jun 10
Bunny I am so happy for you and I wish the best on this
But as you say take things slowly and easy
To answer your Question no I didn't meet my Man online I met him 8 1/2 years ago through work, we became very good Friends in the 2 weeks I worked there, it wasn't until 2 years later when I went to visit him again that the romance started I was a nit worried as I thought I would loose my best Friend but nope he stayed and still is that to
Love to you Sweetie
@bunnybon7 (50973)
• Holiday, Florida
7 Jun 10
oh that is so sweet. how does he get on with gissi? yes im hoping it will work out but if not we will see. theres more fish in the sea..
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@bunnybon7 (50973)
• Holiday, Florida
6 Jun 10
wow that is so cool. they wont let me put my referral on there. they must have gotten wise to that
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@grecychunny26 (9483)
• Philippines
16 Jun 10
Wow, that was great I am happy for you. Its magical that in online you can meet your future partner. Maybe you are really inlove, I feel in your post that you are really happy. Please update us of what will happen next. You know some find their one true love online an some are very unfortunate. No matter what happen, enjoy the feeling.
@bunnybon7 (50973)
• Holiday, Florida
17 Jun 10
now im quite enjoying the feeling. he seems a really nice guy and a lot like me. all i can do is hope it dont go wrong
@grecychunny26 (9483)
• Philippines
17 Jun 10
I hope it will be for forever! I really wish he is the right man for you
@walijo2008 (4644)
• United States
6 Jun 10
All I can say is be very careful, I myself don't know of very many relationships that worked out when they met on the internet. How do you know he's really who he says he is? I think it would be kind of scary for me. Don't get me wrong I hope it works out for you, just be careful is all I'm saying. I didn't meet my husband online or anything, I met him at his workplace, which was strange in itself..haha..Good luck.
@walijo2008 (4644)
• United States
7 Jun 10
Yeah, you gotta be careful with what you post on facebook. Make sure its something you don't mind everybody reading..haha. Best of luck my friend..
@bunnybon7 (50973)
• Holiday, Florida
6 Jun 10
thanks friend. ive been very careful and am letting my friends, family know. ive found that if a guy is to shadowy about letting everyone know, it usually means hes hiding something. problem is, i just had to delete from my wall some personal stuff this morning that he didnt realise everyone on facebook could see poor guy, hes worse with it then me. i told him though. so hopefully its fine from here on.
@celticeagle (168541)
• Boise, Idaho
13 Jun 10
You be careful. You know what they say: "Three is the charm". Hope it is for you. I met what I have met several guys on a social networking site. One in practicular touched my heart and broke it into smitherines. He was something and I have some fond memories. I hope this one for you goes well. Keep us posted, eh?
@celticeagle (168541)
• Boise, Idaho
14 Jun 10
I will hope they are just silly and not depressed sad discussions. Men do have other stuff to do sometimes. Just keep busy and he will get back to you I bet.
@bunnybon7 (50973)
• Holiday, Florida
14 Jun 10
i will try. im a little depressed this weekend as hes busy doing his work for the honor gaurds. and son isnt helping any by making me feel i may have to find someone to get close to, as his NY girlfriend is visiting begining next month through august. so look for some depressed sad discussions from me here. oh my
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@jt1982 (16)
• United States
7 Jun 10
I met my fiance in an AOL chat room back in 2006. At the time, I was caught up in a really bad marriage, rather Hell. He was there for me through everything ... was my shoulder, my ear, my voice of reason, my comforter ... Nothing happened between us at that point even though we both felt it. Actually, we lost contact for about two years. Then out of the blue, 6 months after I left my husband and filed for divorce, we ran into each other again on MySpace and it was if time had never passed between us. I knew I loved him the first moment we spoke and he felt the same for me. Here we are almost 2 1/2 years later, engaged {my messy divorce finally went through after years of Hell}, with a bautiful 1-year-old daughter, a precious baby boy 19 weeks from being due to make his grand entrance into the world and still madly in love.
Good luck BUT be safe! Not all internet-related meetings end fairy-tale like ...
@bunnybon7 (50973)
• Holiday, Florida
8 Jun 10
yes dear i do know that and im being very safe. but this man seems to be surely stealing my heart. iam so glad for you and i think i may be do for another fairy tale ending/begining myself
@nangisha (3495)
• Indonesia
15 Jun 10
Hi bunnybon7!.
I really glad to hear someone falling for you at online site. Its never work for me because I really hard to fallen to someone and when that happen its always in real life and never with someone I meet in the internet because first impression really important to me.
I hope every thing will working great for you and giving you a satisfied relationship.
@bunnybon7 (50973)
• Holiday, Florida
16 Jun 10
thanks for your well wishes. i can only hope. the internet seems to be the new social site way of meeting people.
@keval32 (1096)
• India
7 Jun 10
Well, first do you also love him? Do you have some feelings for him? Then that's great, get to gather and get married soon.
No, I never met someone online who can be my partner. Okay, when you both decide to become each others life mate, don't forget to tell me about that. Okay?
@bunnybon7 (50973)
• Holiday, Florida
7 Jun 10
ok i better send you a request. so you will hear all about it. that is if you keep up with mylot friends.
@bunnybon7 (50973)
• Holiday, Florida
8 Jun 10
so iam telling you now. im a bit overjoyed. its working out great. what a precious man. we are so alike.
@andy77e (5156)
• United States
7 Jun 10
Really. That is so unbelievable to me.
How can you fall in love with a guy, you have never met?
I find online love stories amazing. I can't imagine ever 'falling in love' over the internet. How do you know the other person is being real? How do you they are not faking it? How do you know their chat "I'm a nice guy" really matches how they act in real life, when you've never met them? You don't need to see them in person at all to fall in love?
The entire concept is perplexing to me.
@mynestegg (519)
• Philippines
9 Jun 10
Wow! Good luck to you
I've met my Bebe online as well and so far we have been together for a good four years and we are still going strong. As long as you are able to take the relationship out into the real world and give it time and space to grow outside the confines of cyberspace you should have a very good chance of finding that special someone at last.
I wish you nothing but happiness on your new journey
@AjaySinghBaghel (5506)
• India
8 Jun 10
I am happy for you. Hope that you get your love soon.
Thank You for sharing
@bunnybon7 (50973)
• Holiday, Florida
8 Jun 10
thank you for being happy for me. im elated. its working beautiful for me
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@bunnybon7 (50973)
• Holiday, Florida
8 Jun 10
yes its easy to hide things, but ive been talking with him quite a lot in different areas. and so far he just seems wonderful. the more i get to know him the more perfect he seems.
@bunnybon7 (50973)
• Holiday, Florida
7 Jun 10
and so you should. then you will be fully established when the love comes along