How could I stop thinking...
By ericpapasit
@ericpapasit (1274)
Philippines
June 6, 2010 6:27pm CST
Yesterday, I conversed with with this lady. One time in the past, I courted her but she dumped me and now she have a boyfriend... But as I talked to her yesterday, I noticed that I'm still attracted to her...
And I don't like to cry over the spilt milk and I like her to be my friend only.. But the thing is I am attracted to her... grrrrr!
What should the best thing to do?
6 responses
@jazer_papas (3)
•
12 Jun 10
Don't bother to keep your self thinking of her cause one day she will open her doors in one of your dreams.
@baltor (43)
• India
7 Jun 10
hiii there .. i am not that much experienced to say about these.... but wil say what i will do......i will sit with her for a nice dish she makes and will say during eating that . i like this food as you made even though you prepared it for another or Acted like it.......... then will see to her eyes and say that i still like this and you even though ......you still doesnt like meeeeeeeeee.......
i think i did it once.........
@ericpapasit (1274)
• Philippines
7 Jun 10
Yap thanks TA!
So all that I can do for now is not to mess up
@mario_stevens (6971)
• Malaysia
7 Jun 10
well, it's one of those things that a guy has to ask himself. and be truthful to yourself when you decide on what to do..if you think that it's worth a shot, then maybe you should try and continue the pursuit. but if you think otherwise, you must have the strength & conviction to see it through..
if not, you might just end up mentally torturing yourself. and that'll be worst..
@ericpapasit (1274)
• Philippines
7 Jun 10
Please pray for me mario that I may have strength after all we are friends..
@JL_Love (199)
• Netherlands Antilles
7 Jun 10
Does she realy like her new boyfriend or just to make you a little bit jealouse ? I think the best thing is to confront her with the truth and your true feelings towards her, because it's not a nice feeling to think that somebody likes you where in the mean while you (in these case her) a lot of affort to be notice and in the other one's eye's your just some nice person.
@ericpapasit (1274)
• Philippines
7 Jun 10
I had already done that... And yes there are reservations though but I rather supported her in her boyfriend, the thing that I truly want to her right now that I could move on, because she is still lovely to me.