How could I stop thinking...

Philippines
June 6, 2010 6:27pm CST
Yesterday, I conversed with with this lady. One time in the past, I courted her but she dumped me and now she have a boyfriend... But as I talked to her yesterday, I noticed that I'm still attracted to her... And I don't like to cry over the spilt milk and I like her to be my friend only.. But the thing is I am attracted to her... grrrrr! What should the best thing to do?
6 responses
12 Jun 10
Don't bother to keep your self thinking of her cause one day she will open her doors in one of your dreams.
• Philippines
12 Jun 10
@baltor (43)
• India
7 Jun 10
hiii there .. i am not that much experienced to say about these.... but wil say what i will do......i will sit with her for a nice dish she makes and will say during eating that . i like this food as you made even though you prepared it for another or Acted like it.......... then will see to her eyes and say that i still like this and you even though ......you still doesnt like meeeeeeeeee....... i think i did it once.........
• Philippines
7 Jun 10
THanks to you Romantic though but it will be hard
@ifa225 (14461)
• Indonesia
14 Feb 11
make a distance from her, that is the only way to stop your feelings but i know u would still think about her. if you want to deny your feelings i guess that is the only way. and try to find another girl
@saphrina (31551)
• South Africa
7 Jun 10
Sweetie, you have 2 choices. Either you just stay her friend or you stay away from her. She need to decide if she wants to leave her boyfriend for you. Whatever you do, never push your luck, she might hate you for that. TATA.
• Philippines
7 Jun 10
Yap thanks TA! So all that I can do for now is not to mess up
• Malaysia
7 Jun 10
well, it's one of those things that a guy has to ask himself. and be truthful to yourself when you decide on what to do..if you think that it's worth a shot, then maybe you should try and continue the pursuit. but if you think otherwise, you must have the strength & conviction to see it through.. if not, you might just end up mentally torturing yourself. and that'll be worst..
• Philippines
7 Jun 10
Please pray for me mario that I may have strength after all we are friends..
@JL_Love (199)
• Netherlands Antilles
7 Jun 10
Does she realy like her new boyfriend or just to make you a little bit jealouse ? I think the best thing is to confront her with the truth and your true feelings towards her, because it's not a nice feeling to think that somebody likes you where in the mean while you (in these case her) a lot of affort to be notice and in the other one's eye's your just some nice person.
• Philippines
7 Jun 10
I had already done that... And yes there are reservations though but I rather supported her in her boyfriend, the thing that I truly want to her right now that I could move on, because she is still lovely to me.