Are stepfathers that capable of providing love than a real father? / myLot

Philippines

June 6, 2010 10:13pm CST

I just had this topic discussion open up since father's day is fast approaching. I was still 5 years old when I lost my real father, because he died due to a myocardial infarction because he's quite fat and overweight not to mention with short sleeping time and some vices. Going back to the discussion, If you were to be asked, do you think stepfathers are good enough to be a father? If you ask me, perhaps not. because in my current situation, my mother is not that happy with my stepfather. because he is not that fair in treating me and my little brother in terms of giving love and attention. How i wish i can turn back time and just make my father feel how much we love him before he died.

4 responses

besthope44

@besthope44 (12123)

• India

14 Aug 10

Well sorry to hear, I never know about step father. But i can say, you dad is always with you, so dont worry of others. Believe in your dad he is there for u.

shadowluigi89

@shadowluigi89 (173)

• Philippines

16 Jun 12

It's alright my friend... Just glad to have some like you here in MyLot whom I can talk and share my insights and personal feelings... Thanks! :)

akosikulebs

@akosikulebs (54)

• Philippines

8 Jun 10

i believe i am fortunate to have found a partner who treats my two kids like his own. he gives them the guidance they need and of course he provides for them as well. a step-father is capable of loving their stepchildren more than their real father could give them.

shadowluigi89

@shadowluigi89 (173)

• Philippines

8 Jun 10

You're one lucky and fortunate person sikulebs. Not everyone has that kind of an opportunity in their lives... So for me, you're children are in good keeping on how nice you stated your reply... Thanks for sharing your experience, this means a lot to me... ^_^

p3ks626

@p3ks626 (6538)

• Philippines

8 Jun 10

I think so. I have an uncle who doesnt have kids on his own so he adopted 2 kids and the kids are aware that he is not their biological father but the kids love him so much because he loved them the same a real dad would.

shadowluigi89

@shadowluigi89 (173)

• Philippines

8 Jun 10

Well that's apparently one special uncle you got there p3ks... I mean not all who has stepfather's can be as lucky as those your uncle is having... Good for them... Thanks for the post...

yathini

@yathini (63)

• India

7 Jun 10

Hi Friend Dont worry abt ur current situations ur father soul is along with u forever i saw u r from philippines and also u crossed 20 u can conncentrate on u r work take care of ur mom spend ur times with ur mom and brother. u can share ur feelings with ur frnds.if u r treated as a frnd u can share with me also. whenever i got mood out. i compare myself with others who had lots of worries than me.our present worries r not permanent it just like a passing cloud. if i am in mood out i tell myself these sorrows also vanished after some week when i am in happy mood. i think my past situation its look like very silly thing. So Dont worry be happy:-)

shadowluigi89

@shadowluigi89 (173)

• Philippines

7 Jun 10

thanks for the post yathini... Actually all i wanna do now is to focus in my work and at the same time allowing my family to enjoy their time by my presence and help. Not every one are fortunate enough to receive a very good step dad... Perhaps they might be good in the first time, but eventually fades of as time passes by... Sure, it's better to have someone who's willing to listen to your feelings every once in a while... So nice of you to offer...