Better off?

United States
June 6, 2010 10:30pm CST
My question for everyone is, is it just me or are more and more women marrying for financial stability? Sure everyone wants to be doing well financially with theyre significant other, but at what cost. To me its just wrong. Its saying ill throw away love for the replacement of money. Whats everyone think?
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@indahfth (11161)
• Indonesia
7 Jun 10
Not everyone thinks like that. No doubt money is the need of every human being to live. Money can be made happy. But sometimes money makes us suffer. Love do not in align with the money. Love is something that can not be valued in money. People who do it just for fun only. And I'm sure people who make love parallel with money, life would not be happy.
• United States
7 Jun 10
I agree with that. Thats kindaof what i was trying to get at. Its like some people just dont get it that sure for awhile theyre going to be happy with having money. But if you never love that person, how can you truly be happy in the long run?
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@indahfth (11161)
• Indonesia
7 Jun 10
yes, happiness is gained must be only temporary. because there is no love, and maybe a compulsion.
• United States
7 Jun 10
I don't really know. I'd say its a good shot. Women get more and more shallow as the days roll on. Especially as the economy keeps dipping lower and lower; money is of utmost importance to everyone. Definitely is wrong. Marriage should have nothing to do with being financially sound. Marriage should be about love, and only love, nothing else should even be in the consideration.
• United States
7 Jun 10
Yeh i agree with most of that. Yeh a woman shouldnt marry a bum who has no money and refuses to take care of her or refuses to work. Thats showing her he doesnt love her. But your right if a man does everything he possibly can for her, showing her he loves her, that should be all she needs. Just doesnt seem like women care about love anymore. Just getting laid my a rich guy whos gonna pay her way through life.