Have you ever argue or fight with your boyfriend or girlfriend?

ARGUMENTS MAKE A RELATIONSHIP STRONGER. YOU GET TO KNOW YOUR PARTNER BETTER. iF YOU DO NOT ARGUE SOMEONE IS PRETENDING IN THAT RELATIONSHIP.

I had never experience arguement with my boyfriend because I never had a boyfriend...But someday I don't want to argue with him...

of course we fight a couple of times in a month but we are not physically fighting..mostly arguing..i don't like physical harm..i'd rather throw something on the wall than hurt him..i guess it is really serious when you've reached the stage of physically wanting to hurt each other..it is better for both of you to cool down or consult a professional..

We just argue with words but not really physically hurting each other.I think that is already getting bad and worst fight.Normally we just argue small things and that's it.We really always talk about the problems and not fighting about it.I am happy we are the type of couple that can talk easily and very open to all problems around.

I really hate it when we argue. Because I am really the confrontational type when I am mad. It seems like my mouth has a life of it's own and it would not stop talking. I am really trying my very best to control my temper and just shut up because once I start I couldn't stop.

Yes I already experience to have a argue with my girl friend but it's just a simple argue, a simple misunderstanding beyond our imperfection. We solve it by having a calm and one on one serious conversation or heart to heart talk as what they call it here. We didn't do anything to harm each other, after the argumentation she hugs me tight :)

yspmyl I have been a widow now for many years and I was never shacked up or living with anyone, so it was husband and wife and I think we argued much less than those in a relatinship. For one thing if you know you are going to permanenty grow old together you make a lot more effort to compromise and to talk out our differences . in a relationship where nobody is ever sure how long the thing will last, that in itself is stress and stress causes some rather emotional arguments. we loved each other too much to hit or claw or scratch each other,that would be unthinkable to either of us.

I guess it depends on each couple. We argue alot but alot less now than we used to. I suppose that if one or both of you is quite strong willed or doesnt like to be told that they're wrong its quite easy to argue. Especially if you care about someone so much that you want to get your point across. The best thing to do to overcome it is just to try to talk more. Tell her to tell you as soon as she's not happy about something, and you do the same. If you actually talk about things more rather than bottling things up (which alot of people do) you'll find you argue less and you'll feel better because you're both getting your points across. Also if you see she's upset about something or if she's yelling at you, I know its hard but try to stay calm. Sit down so that you're not making yourself look tall and agressive and talk quietly and softly as though you are not arguing. It will be really hard at first but if you remember to TRY to do that each time you find yourselves falling out, eventually she'll begin to copy that behaviour from you and see that its a far better way of discussion than arguing. Good luck :)

Hi yspmyl I have only girlfriends but I never quarrel or fight with anyone even they shout at me or try to fight to me I will listen to every thing they want to say with me and just quit from that place because I don't like to fight with any one and I am a cool person I know only to be friendly with every one. If they don't want to continue friendship with me I will be away from them but never use any harsh words or hurt them I don't like any one get hurted because of me even if they are harsh towards me. I believe that if its their mistake god will punish them.

Arguments between BF and GF is normal. It is not normal if they don't argue in their relationship.

I argue yes, but not to the point of being in a physical fight with him, what is the point of that?

I think it's a part of relationship because with this king of troubles you and your partner will become stronger :))

yeah many time we r fighting or argue the bestway to solve it just clear ur misunderstanding or dont talk to ur boy/girlfriend time pass on everything goes normal way and this is work for me u also can do it

aww yes i guess she didnt mean to hurt you and that you start bleeding. anyway me i never had a real bf i mean i had just one that i met in internet and is over already. yes we argued but even if he was near me i wouldnt beat him or something i would just yell at him thats what i think i would do. anyway in all relationships couples argue and most part they just yell and yell till get tired and turn their backs to each other for awhile but then everything is fine^^ like your gf when saw you were bleeding she was worried with you^^

I have argued with my girlfriend a lot of my times but not to the extent that we are shouting and exchange a harsh word or have bruises. To argue is different from quarrel. We just argue on little things such as principles, time, concepts, etc. I can argue with her without hurting her feelings. I love my girlfriend so much.

my boyfriend and i used to argue a lot at the beginning of our relationship. maybe because we were still getting to know each other. he used to raise his voice at me and then walks out. even if i was crying, it didn't matter. it never got physical though. we're not like that. we were both impatient and stubborn. as much as possible, though, we made sure that we will not sleep with the matter unresolved. we will always find a way to talk things through. we don't fight as much anymore. maybe because we have a long distance relationship now and we just want to enjoy our time together everytime we see each other.