she can pretend just nothing had happended and walk away out of my world

Hi Nichola Ya.I just want to said maybe you led your girlfriend so disappoint,so she choice to walk away out of your world.You said you promised she you will go the city where she is ,whether you toll she what time you will go? If you only promised not doing it just led she wait wait wait ...If she wait ,but you decide not to go ,what can she do?You said you tired ,maybe she tired too...

I understand what the problem is why the relationship does not stay long. The reason is because you had a long distance relationship. Love needs nurturing every now and then and it wont thrive if both parties were both busy. And what adds more to the damaged is the distance that would kill any living residue of love that is struggling to keep afloat. Just give her time and space...maybe she needs to think things over about you and her love for you. If she really loves you she will return and contact you back again. But don't keep your hopes high...you might be disappointed.

nicholaya sounds like distancedoes not make the hear grow fonder,instead it causes bif problems .I am sorry you having a rough time with your girlfriend but perhaps the old saying time heals everything. hope it works out for the two of you ;good luck andGod Bless.

People say, "Out of sight, out of mind". Some puts it as "Absence makes the heart grow fonder". Well, it reall depends on whose perspective it's going to be. However for your case, probably she has already met someone new who's, proximity wise, close to her. This is the risk of having a long distance relationships. It's either you the distance makes you get closer or makes your gap bigger than the miles between you. I feel bad for the loss but hey, someone's worth your time will come along in a perfect time. Cheer up, you'll do just fine.

I am from London and my boyfriend was from Paris, but still we fell in love with each other more than four years ago, he came here and sometimes I went there to live and finally he got a job here itself so we see each other daily now. I think she has not been able to decide what she wants because loving someone is not something we plan everyday and happens every day too.

Hmm... that was really sad for the both of you. Things surely did changed a lot for you guys maybe because of the times that was not spent to have good memories since you guys have a long distance relationship. Sometimes when a person whom we cherish so much is not with you there seems to be an instance that a girl would think things that's really unnecessary like if you had been faithful to her when your away. I guess one reason why you guys had this is because you don't trust each other that much. If you guys both loved each other or if your girlfriend really loved you that much she must love you when your with each other but must love and miss you more when your far from one another. Anyway, don't worry that much, if you really love her that much why don't you show up to her personally and prove her that you did loved her by tanking chances it would be impossible for her to refuse you if you both seen each other right? Good luck Nicholaya!