Friends how they change?

United States
June 7, 2010 5:58pm CST
Its amazing how your friends change over the years some change in a good way some change in a bad way.what i want to know is how your best friend in the whole world changes into a wanna be bad girl and then accuses you of talking behind her back.is she hanging out with the wrong people or taking advice from the wrong people?? i just dont get it?
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• United States
8 Jun 10
It's quite sad if they change for the worst though. I mean, I had a neighbor who I was closed to. She was very outgoing and friendly, but she ended up getting into smoking and drinking. It made me sad to see her like that, because I'm not into that sort of stuff. We still talk occasionally since she's moved to another town, but we had a lot of good times together.
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• United States
8 Jun 10
awwww im so sorry.i know how you feel,but at least there are others out there looking for your friend ship.
• United States
8 Jun 10
It is fine, but thank you for your sympathy. I get on well without her. I miss the things we did, but I don't miss her that much, if that makes sense. It's been years since we saw each other.
• United States
8 Jun 10
i know what you mean well at least your doing good.
• Japan
8 Jun 10
Well as socrates said, you can't change people so you have to change yourself to adapt to everyone else. Luckily none of my good friends has ever turned into those "bad people". Yeah so the point is that life is kind of complicated and you dont knkow what is going to happen, so like live it well :D.
• Philippines
8 Jun 10
friends do change..you have to accept that..and at one point in your life you will realize that you don't mix well anymore..your friend will still be your friend but you don't share the same ideas anymore..anyways if you want to keep your friendship despite of your differences, you have to talk to her and gain her trust and respect for you again..don't give up on her specially that she is hanging out with the wrong people per se..
@prinzcy (32305)
• Malaysia
8 Jun 10
Sadly, whether we like it or not, friends do change over the years. When we start hanging out with others, find new interests and hobby or we have new experiences - we gradually start to change. My friend didn't start being a bad girl, we just don't have the same thing to talk with. She stayed in other state and it's awkward to converse everytime. Then we were not best friend anymore. About your best friend, you can try to reach for her but that's the only thing you can do. She'll come to it one day.
• United States
8 Jun 10
This is a common fact. My personal opinion on the subject is that life has a tendency to throw us loops, it is those that allow our characters to change that make them bad friends. No matter what we go through in life we should never allow our characters to change, although the loopy loops really have a tendency to make it so if even temporary.
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• Philippines
8 Jun 10
Its really sad when some close friend changed because of money, never think of the friendship & the closeness that you had been too for so many years.
@sathya264 (174)
• India
8 Jun 10
oh what a pretty question i cant affraid for asking any question at my friends because there is nothing in between us.no secrets and we never appolgise for any one to any other.