Why do Girls never say 'YES' Even If they want To say Yes?

because they are afraid of making decisions that they will regret someday. most of the women were that. they always think twice before they move or make decisions. they think what are the possibility in the negative and positive. they also think the most prioritize thing than love. sometimes they usually say no because they are not yet ready or do it because they want them to be love more than they love their self. making that kind of decision is very hard. so they must think seriously before they go and say yes

For me because girl is always like a slowly view and after all they like too.It is instinct that attitude.

We, women, have always been told to make you men work for it. Meaning, if you don't gravel at our feet and do everything in power to impress us, then we will not say yes. I have always been told to never settle and never say "yes" right off the bat. I have been that you have to make the guy work for it. If he isn't what you want or he doesn't impress you somehow, then he isn't worth it. For me, the guy has to be unique. My boyfriend is not like other guys, and that for me was one of the biggest reasons why I decided to go out with him. My boyfriend is smart, he is pretty talented, and he knows things that most people don't. Also, he is so great with children and special needs people.

I tend to be like this because I don't want the guy to take advantage of my weaknesses or with the way I treat him. There are things that should undergo thorough planning right before we can make a good decision. I think that there are a lot factors but these are my views towards this issue or matter.

Maybe it's because girls are two-minded... They really want to say yes but the negative possibilities are drawing her to hold her answer. Or maybe it's because she just wants you to wait for her, she's testing your patience. These are from my experiences.... hope that helped

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Maybe they are just testing the sincerity of the guy if he will stay after she said 'no'. Right? If he still sticks around, then he must be sincere and serious with the girl. When it comes to asking for one's hand in marriage, its a different story. The girl will not say yes if she's not 100% sure. So just be patient, she doesnt want to make the wrong decision, shes still trying to figure out if shes ready for it.

I think women have to or should think deeper about getting involved with someone because of the possibility of pregnancy etc. Even on birth control, you can get pregnant and it is not as uncommon as you would think. And then there is possible STD...everyone should think twice.

for the reason of not to think that they are easy to get, that is why even-though they want to say yes but much better to to say no.. and to test also to a guy if they are really truth and stick what they say a gal.. and some girls are keeping to their dignity to remain good, that is why trying to hide their feelings to aware some impression of progressiveness...

As for me I think girls just like to be treat special so they try to be hard to get and they want to see that the guys are seeking for their answer I really don't like those attitude of a girl if they love the guy then why do they need to do all those hard thing. I think that is also the reason why guys play with the girl because they are too demanding and they always like to be threaten like princes in a fairy tale well I not against with the girls but I think its not fair I never treated girl special they are always saying that they can do what man can do so for me they are not special. I just hope that girl who like to be treated same as the man in terms of supremacy then they should not act like a weak baby in front of a guy and act like a princess.

I think girls should discreet by people who are they want. maybe is a test for girl want to know something.

coz that's how girls are meant to b.....shy and all...

I think if you really like this girl, it shouldn't matter what her answer is because you can always change the no to a yes. I think most women feel that it would be easier to change a no to a yes as opposed to a yes to a no. Becasue then you open a whole other "can of worms". So be patient, ask again, different time, or different ways.....eventually she's say what you want to hear.

I was contrary to situation you mentioned. I always say YES at most time. I always do not know how to refuse other's ask even though I will be regretful after that. Because I am afraid to hurt everyone. in fact, it is decided by the character, not all of the girls never say YES

a lot of the time we let our pride get in the way

Hi jagjit: I think that's because in our culture, girls usually don't give a direct answer. I think that's probably because a girl wouldn't want to look like she is easy to convince, so she would love that you make an extra effort and not give you all the things so easy. Thanks for asking me thsi question. I will love to read the answers you receive specially the ones from the ladies. Have a nice day. ALVARO.

That's how and when the saying started: "Silence means Yes." A girl's way of portraying her femininity and pretentiousness. Playing hard to get, you know what I mean. So as men, we act insistent or persistent because sooner or later "all is well that ends well." Indeed.

yes, becas they are naturally very shy. but all the girls are not like that dear friend.

well,actually the girls don't like to show their expression openly..i mean, although their would like to say yes but they do cover it up but saying 'i will think about it' and other similar line..but some girl truly doesn't want to say yes although the guy thought that they will say 'yes'..you do get it right?

a girl maidenly reserve, and a certain sense of what was conventional under some special circumstances, called her to forestall and deny this familiarity, but the daring and magnetism of the individual, born of past experiences and triumphs, prevailed, at last she would answerd with a "yes". Reserve is the right for a girl, but it surely would be conquered by the daring and magnetism of a boy...maybe this is a kind of principle of nature!