why do you cheat?

Philippines
June 7, 2010 9:43pm CST
I was once cheated and the cheater never stops cheating until these days. Why do some people cheat. I don't cheat because I don't wanna hurt that some1 I love and I don't want to complicate my life everyday. Why can't others just live the same principles that I do?
8 responses
airyl831
@airyl831 (9)
• Philippines
8 Jun 10
Because They Wanna Experience Winning so They Cheat...
simplyvenus
@simplyvenus (39)
• Philippines
8 Jun 10
but one can win without cheating...there are a lot of ways to win...why hurt themselves?
getbiswa2000
@getbiswa2000 (5544)
• India
8 Jun 10
May be because its a shortcut
dorannmwin
@dorannmwin (36392)
• United States
8 Jun 10
The question would be better stated for me if it was asked in such a way that it would be, "Why don't you cheat?" I choose to not cheat because I like for everything in my life to be as simple as possible. That said, if I was to cheat on my husband, then I know that would add complications in my life that I don't want to have. I am completely happy with my husband and it would kill me if anything would ever happen that would cause me to lose him.
simplyvenus
@simplyvenus (39)
• Philippines
9 Jun 10
The feeling is mutual (though I don't have a husband yet). I don't want to complicate my already complicated life. I am a bread winner and at the same time a mother to my siblings (because we lost our mother since we were still very young).I don't want them to see in me a complicated life just because I cheat. I think that seems so mundane and inappropriate. I am not perfect, but as what others would say, I want to be a role model.
mrfdg1972
@mrfdg1972 (3237)
• Philippines
8 Jun 10
really i dont
simplyvenus
@simplyvenus (39)
• Philippines
9 Jun 10
okay, that's it..i believe you (smiling here).
mrfdg1972
@mrfdg1972 (3237)
• Philippines
8 Jun 10
Welcome to my lot. Your name is very beautiful, simplyvenus.
getbiswa2000
@getbiswa2000 (5544)
• India
8 Jun 10
Hi, I am so sorry for whatever happened to you. I don't wanna elaborate what has already been discussed so many times in so many ways. How can we forget something if we continue dwelling on it? So its better to find love elsewhere. I will tell you this much. I love you, and so does every other member of myLot. Whenever you will feel sorry, we will be right beside you. Thanks God bless you
simplyvenus
@simplyvenus (39)
• Philippines
9 Jun 10
I appreciate your point and thank you for the messages.
p3ks626
@p3ks626 (6538)
• Philippines
8 Jun 10
They are not in their proper minds that's why they cheat. They are going crazy and something's wrong with their heads that they cheat and wanted to prove something. People like that are not worthy of trust.
simplyvenus
@simplyvenus (39)
• Philippines
8 Jun 10
I agree; people who cheat cannot be trusted.
mrfdg1972
@mrfdg1972 (3237)
• Philippines
8 Jun 10
i dont cheat
cricket10
@cricket10 (66)
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8 Jun 10
I just responded to this discussion but would like to add, I won't be responsible for any accidents or injuries, etc. I will add that we all accepted the Lord in our life, and that did change things dramatically.