Should i ask her to marry me ?

I advice you to not ask her yet..there's a reason why you hesitate and why you're not sure if you love her..take some time off and maybe you can find the perfect girl for you that will make you happy for the rest of your life.

You should not have dating a girl for a long period like this without any attraction for her.How does she feel towards you?Do you have any idea about that? The best thing is to have an open talk with her and if she is willing to marry you,just go ahead.At the least you don't hate her and that is enough.

Hi! From my experience it would be best if you wait and ask yourself on how you really feel because it's hard to go into something with hesitation. You might end up regret it at the end.

Well I would have to say that marriage would be a big step in showing your love but it's not necessary for you to do that to be in love with your girlfriend. Maybe wait it out a little longer and see how you feel. I'm getting pretty close to the time that you and your girlfriend have been together with my girlfriend. Maybe instead of imagining life without her you should imagine the rest of your life with her. Start imagining what your children with your girlfriend would look like and act like, because I look forward to creating a being with the woman I am currently with. I also have a hard time thinking about life without my girlfriend and we have those feelings for a reason.

Why do you hesitate in the first place? Is it because of you or is it just because you're unsure of the girl's response? Are you afraid of rejection? Asking a girl to marry her is a big thing. For us, it means you're ready for the responsibilities (financially, emotionally, mentally, socially) that come with it. If you think your girl isn't ready as well, then don't pop the question. It's a gut feeling, you know. It just comes out of you naturally at the right time, your instincts will guide you on that.. ;D Good luck!

if your unsure, if your hesitating, why do it?.. i guess you need more time... the perfect time will come.. i believe in that..

hi, if you still got any hesitations about asking her to marry then don't ask her yet. it would be better that you have fully made up your mind that this girl is the woman that you want to spend the rest of your life with. there is a perfect time for everything just wait for the fright time. does your girl giving hints that she wants to settle down already?

hi, one question is why are you unsure of your feelings for her/ second, why do you want to get married already/ when a person gets into a relationship, you should think already of the long-term in the long run, i mean that's the purpose why do we must get into a relationship to build a strong foundation, and get married. however, there's a right time for everything, i mean it involves commitment and investment, and going to a bigger responsibility. having children, providing basic needs, building dreams, are you already for all of this, if yes and you already decided that she is the one you wanted to be with for the rest of your life then get marry.

Yes.

When in doubt, DON'T!

I totally understand committing into more responsibilty is kinda hard,,but nobody can answer your question except you only...if u really love her and your even saying that you cannot live without her..why dont you make it official then... Every girls for sure is waiting for proposal thats for sure.... so if you feel like doiing it.. dont listen to other person that its hard,,,blah blah...of course nothing is easy in life... but again... its all how you feel... take it easy but be sure of your feelings too.. goodluck:) i believe those married man are so brave to take care of their wife and babies..:)

I think you should not ask her unless you are 100% sure of your feelings and love for her. Maybe you should wait until you know that you really want and love her to be part of your life. Doing a marriage proposal should take seriously and with consideration.

to jump or not to jump? i know a lot of guys who asked this question before proposing. marriage is an adventure of sorts, there's a lot of fear-conquering involved, however, you say you're not sure if you love her very much...that's a different story. love should be the main reason for marriage because it's supposed to conquer all and make you a better version of yourself. think hard friend. sort out yourself first before dragging somebody into an arrangement that's designed to be forever.

Your gut never lies. If it says hold back then that's probably the best action to take. You don't want to make that commitment with any type of hangups or regrets. You'll know when the right time for you is. If she's getting agitated and wondering if you'll ever say it then perhaps you both need to rethink the situation. What's the emphasis on getting married? Is her biological clock ticking?These are all considerations that you both need to discuss. If it's coming up in conversations and you're running for the hills to avoid it then perhaps you need to have a heart-to-heart with your significant other so that you both can be completely honest about your wants/needs/expectations. Then whatever happens will happen and you both were prepared. There's less issues when communication is honest and plentiful in the relationship. Hope this is helpful. Goodluck.

First of all you should ask yourself why are you being hesitated in the first place. There must be a strong reason which makes you hesitate. Maybe you feel that your partner does not meet all of your expectations, and you are hoping her to change. Or, maybe you are starting to get bored with her for certain reasons, and hoping that someone else will appear in your life so that you can compare your existing partner with the new one. Whatever it is, the answer lies in you and only you can make the decision. If I were you, I will make a checklist and see how things go from there.

Have the two of you spoken of marriage? Do you have plans and dreams for the future that you have shared with her? Surely the two of you should be discussing your future and what you expect from a wife and a marriage and what she expects? You don't just pop the question and hope everything works out...life is not like that. Marriage is not like that. You have to have a plan together and nurture that plan so you are working together on the marriage. Anyone who leaves things to chance is an idiot.

Maybe you are not certain about it. I feel you are not ready for it. You will feel it if you are ready. I know you love here but it can be proven all the time not only by marrying her. But in marrying her it means you are ready to move into the next leave of relationship and you are very serious to have a life with her forever. It really depends on you.

Your coming here to ask this question shows you have you doubts. If you have doubts then you should not marry.

why do you hesitate? if you hesitate you'd regret it once you're in it. 5 years is the ultimatum. this is when you either ask someone to marry you or you leave. the reason behind this length of time is you get to know each other so much that it's tiring already.

Well, if you are not 100% sure that you want to marry her, it is probably better to wait. There is no hurry, you have lost of time! I was first married when I was 20 and he was 22, but we had only been together a year and it was too soon, we were too young. My current husband, we started going out together in 1997 and waited until 2002 before getting married and we are still together and happy.