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By moiz_ocT
@moiz_ocT (6)
United Arab Emirates
June 8, 2010 1:23am CST
hello everybody !!!!!!! yesterday i saw a boy who was so hesitant that he couldnt even properly talk. i had to a mall and we were sitting in a cafe. this boy is our friend but he never behaved in such a way! he was reluctant to talk , and even didnt look above his heels! we kept on talking to him , but he was as numb as a swollen lip! i dont know what is the matter. itried to talk to him but then again he refused to tell me anything. he was never like that and in my knowledge nothing has occured or happened to him. did you experience something this much peculiar? please let me know and also tell me how to persuade him to tell me ?...
2 responses
@Rtlsnk316 (1197)
• Mexico
8 Jun 10
It has happened to me and I bet to many people as well, but I can't compare my experiences with yours although they are very similar.
One thing I can tell you for sure, do not think that your friend SHOULD tell you what his problem is, it is not proper in my opinion to try and "help" someone by forcing them to talk to you when they don't want to.
Leave them, respect their space and when they're ready, IF they need to let you know, they will do, NOT before, NOT when you decide, it will be when THEY decide to do so.
Regards.
@amelly (1554)
• Malaysia
8 Jun 10
maybe he got something up in his mind or something is bothering him in a way that you didn't realised..there must be a reason why he keep it quiet..by time pass,maybe he will share his problems or be the old person that you guys knew..don't push him alrite..i know you want to help..it is good but maybe he is not ready to share..
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