Is it right to condemned me or treat me like i am having a communicable disease?

Hi emjsar: It sounds like you are having a very difficult situation around you. Maybe you're dealing with lots of stress because of the mistake you have made and the reaction from the people that are around you. My suggestion is that you should take a time for yourself to feel relaxed and recover your internal peace. After doing the things that are in your hand to repair your mistake you should continue with your life trying to be a better person. If some persons don't want to talk with you at the moment, it's their decition leave them alone. Don't punish yourself for this situation and calm down. Time heals almost everything. Thanks for sharing with us how you're feeling. Have a nice day. ALVARO.

I just wonder what have you done something wrong that really make them avoid talking to you. If it is really serious and had affected severely the feelings and pride of other people then you have to understand their feelings first after all you made a mistake. Don't feel sad we all made mistake sometimes. Just give time to this people to understand what really happen. If the mistake you made is not that severe then those people who avoided you is not worth your attention. Go ahead with your life and just be yourself. Everything will be okay someday.

It is very hard to answer this, Emjsar, without having any idea of what you did and why they are rejecting you. Did you break their trust or hurt them in some way? Whatever you did the most important thing to do is forgive yourself and move on with your life. If you do good things then eventually people will see that you have really learned from your mistakes.

Okay!You did some mistakes and learned from it.but people will not accept you immediately and that is their nature.Try to be patient for some time and your calm nature and behavior will prove them that you have really changed and slowly they will start to accept you. Remain cool!

Don´t feel so bad, emjsar! There are all kinds of people in the world and the ones that judge the most are the first ones to pick up stones to throw. Welcome to mylot! Here you will find a community of people that, like the rest of the world, will have different thought about things. But you can choose which ones to talk and you will soon find yourself helpen and cuddled by wonderful human beings from all the world. Don´t mind the ones who judge you: I´m sure not everyone does. Take care!

Hi Emjsar15!. I believe you feel sad today. I hope you feel OK soon. People tend to act like that when me making mistake. I have one friend who like that who judge me the way she want. Its really hurt my heart because i was there when she had problems and support her the best I can. I think there is people who only want to be understand but never try to understand others. Keep strong my friend and you will see every thing will be OK, just have faith the day not always rainy because after rain sunny day will come.

Hi emjsar! I can understand how you feel. And I'm so sorry! Unfortunately that's what life is. There are lots of people around us who love to condemn and judge others. It is no surprise that some of these people are those who are the closest to you. And they would continue to do so unless you do not allow them to. Unless you give them a reason not to. I commend you for being brave to face your mistakes and learned enough from them. Turn them around and use them as your assets. That's your greatest defense.