interact with new person
By anaksamosir
@anaksamosir (28)
Indonesia
June 9, 2010 2:31am CST
hi all...
a wanna ask your opinion..how your way to interact with nwe person that you know such as in college, office, or maybe in public place..
thanks..
5 responses
@megamatt (14292)
• United States
9 Jun 10
I think being polite with people but not too polite is the best way to interact with new people. I want to come across as approachable but at the same time, its a bit tricky dealing with certain people. You really want to get a feel with what a person is like. Until then, I am rather guarded and am careful with what I say. I do not know if this person will be a friend, someone I will not get along with, or someone that I may never see again in my life.
Still, its best to give off a decent impression. While not coming across as too overbearing. You want to be polite when this happens. However, there is no reason not to be careful. You never really know what people are like until you actually talk to them. You might see them again or you may not see them at all. However, there should be a good impression of you to them.
@chanlot (189)
• Indonesia
9 Jun 10
I will make my face nice views and do not pout, make these people interested in us, then who will we are talking to will feel comfortable.
I will greet people I meet and smile at him, then carefully we invite these people acquaintances. Begin the introduction with a light conversation and a general nature and to offend those with whom we have just such an acquaintance.
@redhotpogo (4401)
• United States
9 Jun 10
First circle around them. Keep your eyes fixed on them, and puff your chest out. You want to display dominance. Show them that you are in charge. It helps to pee on things, so that they know where the boundaries are. If they approach you, swat at them with your hand. Allow them to sniff your butt, so they know what you ate for lunch. You can tell alot by someone by what they ate for lunch. Make sure to eat lots of manly foods first. Then once you've got the familiarities out of the way invite them to stand next to you, and conversate.
@Beautyfactor (1512)
•
9 Jun 10
The easiest thing to do would be to go over and introduce yourself and keep the conversation casual. Ask them about themselves and try to find some common ground on which you can build a friendship. Keep the conversations light and ask questions and listen well.
Hope this helps and welcome to mylot!
@myswirlyagelessmind (379)
• Philippines
9 Jun 10
you always start with a hello and a sincere how's it going? in european countries, bringing up the weather is always a great way to get people talking. when i was in college, i brought a bag of candy and offered them to my new classmates...they ended up wanting to vote me for block chairperson. everybody loves a sweet so start a connection with something sweet.:)