how true meaning of friendship do you think.

Indonesia
June 9, 2010 9:58am CST
every human life there must be feeling happy or unhappy. this certainly would be dreamed by everyone. as for when us squezze very sad , and of course someone who want to listen all the sadness. and hearing our sad story. etc. but is very rare to find some like that. many of friends we have in fact left us when we felt sad. so according to me the real friend is someone who going to live in difficult and sad with us. how about you
5 responses
• Malaysia
9 Jun 10
there is a saying, 'a friend in need is a friend indeed'.. they're the type of friends who stick with you no matter what. through thick and thin.. they are rare, and i'm happy that i'm fortunate enough to have a few friends like that
• Malaysia
10 Jun 10
i don't want the third type of friend. the second friend is always in the cupboard, and i work everyday to get the first type of friend just joking my closest friends are the most precious to me. worth more than any money can buy. and i'm also a bit choosy as to who i would be friends with. i don't mind meeting new people and chatting up and stuff, but only once i'm comfortable with whoever it is, then i'll consider them a friend.. and maybe if you'll cook me some coto..i'll be your best friend hehe..kidding :)
• Indonesia
10 Jun 10
ok. dear my new friend. but in my live i don't ever have just one closest friends. but it is no problem. but what in our life we depend to our friend forever. have think your close friend become your close enemy. many experience had teaches me how my close friend become my enemy but. it give a great lesson how to manage a friendship with our friend. only understanding each other. ok. about coto came to my country. kidding to hehe :)
• China
13 Jun 10
Hello there,I think you misunderstand what is a true friend.We shouldn't expect that how much we can get from our friends.And we shouldn't take our friends as a machine that can listen to us when we complain about our life.My personal thinking is that true friends should care for each other every moment and they should have the same dream pursue,so that they can work together and make great progress.
• Indonesia
13 Jun 10
okay, thanks for yours comment. but from the opinion that i wrote. i am not tell that friend like a machine, but i mean here, a friend who can understand his friend to it's means a friendship. not friend only. because, friend is not profession but feeling each other. personal feeling. or the other means person with person.
@allamgirl (2140)
• Philippines
10 Jun 10
yes, i also believe that you can test someone's friendship when you go through a bad time. i remember last year when i was going through a bad break up. i've often thought that the only good thing that break up brought to me was that i realized how true my friends are.
• Indonesia
10 Jun 10
yes, right. from that all experience we can know how the characteristic our friend. but the something important is how close us with our friend don,t ever regard them as everything. but truly friendship is there understanding each other. cause it will grow the familial feeling. but from our experience can give us many lesson and wise for our future in friendship.
@besthope44 (12123)
• India
16 Jul 10
Well less expect in friendship can help it grow better. Accepting them for what they are can help to grow better.
@Metatronik (6199)
• Pasay, Philippines
23 Jun 10
A friend must be someone that you can actually TRUST and UNDERSTANDS you especially your flaws. Someone who would accept you whether it is good or bad. That is not actually a friend if he or she only uses you or with you if that person needs help.