Would you be able to let go of the person whom you really love.

Thank you for your response, cheongyc. I am so impressed by people like you with such unbelievable courage of being able to let go of something as precious as this special relationship. However, every action begins with a thought but it will take even greater courage to put such task into action. Frankly, parents like yours are so lucky to have sons or daughters who are filial enough to seek parental approval before their marriage. Although this task would be difficult to fulfill for some people but it will depends on the degree of their mental, emotional and mindset power within themselves. Obviously, people who are strong in those aspects will find it easier and unaffected when they leave their lovers. However, the complexity of such relationship will also lies on the individual's perception on the extend of their aquaintance with their lovers. Closer and deeper relationship is harder to depart whereas less intimate relationship is easier to deal with. Best wishes to you and happy posting.

Thanks for your compliments and you are right that being filial is one of my priorities in life. It's true that it really take a lot of courage and determination to make a decision to leave our lover for some reason. But I am always surprised how some of my acquaintance could do it so easily and so frequently. So, I think, as you said, it still depends on the degree of complexity involved, intimacy level and personal mind set or characteristics.