Question

I prefer you stay home and do Mylotting with your child...

My boyfriend and I discussed this and decided I would stay home with our son. Childcare is so expensive and that's basically what I would be working for. I can do it myself at home and I know he is being taken care of. There is one other person I really trust to watch him. That's a lady that is very close to the family. She is so good with him and he loves her a lot. I never have to worry about him when he's with her. I know she'll do a great job and she always knows just what he needs.

quitting my job will not do me any good in the long run..we all need our jobs unless our husband is earning enough to shoulder all the expenses..in the meantime, getting a babysitter is a good idea..but i will follow my instinct in choosing the right one for the job..and of course i need to make sure that my baby will like her..kids knows who to trust and like..i guess kids has that magical talent..