Which one do you choose ?!?!?!
By 5h1n164m1
@5h1n164m1 (111)
Indonesia
June 10, 2010 8:56pm CST
Which one do you choose?
Girlfriend/Boyfriend or Close friends? Give a reason!
One of my friend asked me when he had conflict with my girlfriend.
My Own Opinion:
I choose my girlfriend because she could be my partner for rest of my life.
On the other hands, friends not always be for us when we need them.
7 responses
@bluemoonpavilion (4658)
• Singapore
11 Jun 10
Depends on the circumstances and the history you have with them. I've known some friends for more years than my bf, and there are certain things I can talk to my friends which I'm not sure my bf would understand, and of course, vice versa.
@StephanieAnnC (4274)
• United States
11 Jun 10
I agree. And welcome to myLot! 
I love my boyfriend and I love my friends, but in different ways. I've known most of my friends longer than my boyfriend. I wouldn't choose between them. If either my boyfriend or one of my friends made me choose only one of them, I wouldn't consider them a true friend or boyfriend.
I would balance them both out. I would see my boyfriend as much as I can and my friends as much as I can. I would not forget about either of them. I accidentally did that when I first got a boyfriend because it was hard to balance them together. My friends understood and forgave me for being so far away.
I love my boyfriend and I love my friends, but in different ways. I've known most of my friends longer than my boyfriend. I wouldn't choose between them. If either my boyfriend or one of my friends made me choose only one of them, I wouldn't consider them a true friend or boyfriend.
I would balance them both out. I would see my boyfriend as much as I can and my friends as much as I can. I would not forget about either of them. I accidentally did that when I first got a boyfriend because it was hard to balance them together. My friends understood and forgave me for being so far away.@5h1n164m1 (111)
• Indonesia
12 Jun 10
thank you,
i agree with you. Some of my friends also said that a person who cornered you with that question is not really your friend because they think that, these 2 positions can not be compare. However, i made a mistake at that time. I choose my friend over my girlfriend _
@denzlangga (744)
• Philippines
11 Jun 10
I would prefer boyfriend over my friends I'm sure they will understand it as well since they will also choose their boyfriends over me. As a result now I am happily married.
@labea17 (443)
• Philippines
11 Jun 10
Well, it depends. I have friend sthat I have known ever since I was a little girl and I would never give them up that easily. True frends are hard to find while you can always find another boyrfriend or girlfriend. Just like what you said, she could be, not that she is your partner for the rest of your life.
@Gloriapzh (11)
• China
11 Jun 10
In one word, it depends, depending on the concrete circumstances, maybe.
I believe my BF and my close-friend are understanding and can be understood.
Maybe I will be the referee of the both, though who knows whether it will succeed or not. I will try.
@19901218 (7)
• China
11 Jun 10
I think,if i were you,i will try to make their relationship turns well,I suggest you that you should try this.There is no thing that is can not solved in a good way.Friends may also give you much help when you need,please don't regard your friends as unnecessary persons,oppositely,you had better to cherish your friendship,and when you really think so,i believe you will feel good as well as you feel your girlfriend.Good luck with you!
