lover vs loved one

I think the best thing you can do, if you are interested in her, you could always take it slow. No rush, just date a few more times than normal, so you know she wouldn't be hurting you like that. I've dated my girl for quite a time, and still with her, no complains. If you don't have any interest, I think it's obvious^^

Take your time, it will all work out when you are in a better state of mind.

The only thing you cab do is be honest and follow your heart. If you are still hurt by the woman who cheated , then tell the woman who loves you. If you feel you can't trust women right now , then tell her. You can't make yourself love someone, either you do or you don't. But please don't take out your frustrations on the other woman. Just be honest and then get with healing. Take care.

I am confused too! If you are trying to love again after being cheated on I would take it slow and let the other person know that this has happened and the reason you are taking it slow. The only way to over a hurt is have a person who won't hurt give you the time to trust again. It all takes time.

Not every girls are cheater, move on, its good to be loved by someone. May be this girl really loves you and the earlier one was just an accident. Go and talk to her, she loves you knowing that you were cheated by some other girl, she has good heart

well,the girl that you loved cheated on you and don't you feel betrayed because of that?i mean you loved her but instead she did something which is soo wrong in any relationship..she didn't appreciate you like she should..why she would ever feel like cheating you if she is happy and loyal?i'm not saying that i'm perfect but i never cheated the one i loved..that will be so pathetic and sick...the girl that like you must REALLY like you..i mean although she knew that story she is still ok with it..

Follow your heart. If you don't love this woman , then tell her. Just follow your bliss. and if this means you Need to be alone , then be alone. Just remember, not All women will cheat.

It sounds to me like you were badly hurt by someone who betrayed you and now you have issues trusting anyone else. I think it is perfectly understandable. It seems to me that you may not be ready for another relationship just yet and the fact that this new girl knows your ex adds to your confusion. If you like the girl but you are not sure if you are in love with her why you don’t explain to her where you’re at and offer her friendship and let her know that is all you are capable at the moment. In time your feelings will become clearer one way or the other. I think the important thing is that you are always honest with her and not promise her things you know you will not be able to deliver. Good luck...

you should talk to her first because if you do, you will know her side of the story and if you feel that you still love her, then stay and take another shot of your relationship. but if you don't feel anything, then moved on. if she cheated you once, she can still do it twice or more depends on both of you if you let it happen.it is better to have someone to love and love you in return right?! ;)

if she knows about what happened to you and still loves you it means that she only cares about you and not your past, that's really nice, don't lose this chance, i say go for her =)