fighting with someone you love

when i argue with someone i feel very angry i say all i feel inside all all. just after say all i calm down. at least thats how i feel when i argue. i dont like to keep things inside like not say what i really feel it makes me be in pain and stressed. very stressed. anyway i dont like arguements i really like to be in peace with people but if someone really makes me angry i say all i cant control myself. then i be sad and cry sometimes but i need to say all.

yes.. the last was the time when me and my ex gf fought in mall of asia. there was a misunderstanding about meeting up. i just got out of work to meet her. i was with my officemate and my exgf just didn't show enough courtesy. it pissed me off because i was even excited to see her then here she is complaing and ranting right in front of my officemate. we fought for several minutes telling her to change her ways. i was at a point where i was feeling exhausted and feels like i'm having a headache. well to cut the story short, things calmed down. but i still hate the feeling. that's why we broke up and never again.i want a happy relationship. i dont care if people say it's part of it or that we will never grow.

Hello. No arguments, confrontations or fights can be more draining than having these with someone you love so dear. I can go all the way arguing with someone who's not close to me but with someone very special? That's too much to handle. My boyfriend has a very short temper and his short temper is very contagious. It affects me. LOL. And me being such a brat tends to argue with him in return too. LOL. I'm just so glad he's the type of guy who can't sleep without resolving any issues. Surprisingly, after every issue resolved, we find ourselves getting closer.

no friend, i have not ever face that situation and perhaps i would not cope with it later on as i am a desperate guy. have a nice day.

Sweetie, nothing can be more exhausting than such a fight. It can really bring you down. I have learned to avoid it when i see the signs. Try it, it can really make a difference. TATA.

Hi there! Yes! I felt that way as well, to be physically and mentally drained after fighting someone i loved. Being in a relationship, you could expect that not all the time, you will be in a perfect sailing mood. Sometimes, arguments and fights will just arise. Me and my husband during our earlier years as a married couple have series of fights, yes indeed, it was physically and mentally draining as if you're so tired, can't sleep and feeling exhausted knowing that you have an enemy with you in the same bed yet you cannot jump off right away out of your marriage plus the fact that you love this person but you still fight with him. That's the feeling my friend, but after settling the problem, that's the sweetest moment i guess..

Yes, arguments, squabbles and quarrels are energy draining. As such try to avoid such occurrences. when your mate is not in the right mood, do not bring out hurting issues. Put off till tomorrow what you can. When things cool down then discuss rationally. Oftentimes, the issue is overblown in our blind but in reality is easily resolved with discussion and consensus.

yes to the point that sometimes you even wake up crying at night.. but after everything and settled down, we really miss each other so much and i can't afford a single minute to run her place and give ourselves a nice unification...

Yes, I always feel drained after having an emotional confrontation with someone I care. It is more tiring compared to working over time or exercising. As much as possible I always try to prevent entering into an argument with people who are close to me.

i really don't like to fight with anyone that i love because of the feeling that you get afterwards.. but if i have to, it does get tiring..

Flight with someone i love is a happy thing for me.We can see the landscape of the land when airplane take off.We can see the scape of the sky when the airplane is flying in the air.It is happy for me to share them with my lover.