Relationship is like a glass

Yes, you are cent percent correct in your opinion! Relationship is like a glass and it is delicate, brittle and fine! It is in best form, if maintained with transparency and care, like glass! If the over-all welfare of the family members remains good, then ex-relationship may be accepted. But this may be an experiment, of which, the results may be observed with patience!! Thanks for this nice discussion!!

I don't think so. I personally have tried it and what went through my mind at first was, he's had some time to grow, he's been in a relationship with some other people, maybe he's matured a little and changed a little and well now I wanna know if he will be what I've been looking for. When I got back with him it was the same him. The texting increased and so did the calling, but he still seemed pretty distant. Bear in mind that he was the one trying to get back with me. I think once something is broken it is broken, you shouldn't try to fix it (unless its a car and you really really like it lol) However, I have seen people get back with their ex and made things work the second time around, its just not for me. If you commit to someone you should be able to work past problems, if you are meant to stay together that is, if not its not meant to be and may even be unhealthy. that's my two cents anyways! -Scott

Once broken can be mended, but the scars always remain. There are a few situations, when it requires the unity of both individuals especially if children are involved, but if the situation arises where lives could be at stake, better not have that EX back.

Thanks for starting the discussion. In my view restart the relation with the ex will much longer than earlier, but it will not be ever lasting. We can join a broken glass by using advanced adhesive but the broken sign will must appear. Some will argue in favour of re united with the ex and may mention some successful story of rejoining but few must not be the common. There are always some exception basically in human nature.

For me it is use because you must be carefully to say with your sweetheart all you going to do is to empress only.

Hello Vijayanths, I do agree in your passage, that relationship is like a glass that once it is broken, it is hard to bring back the pieces. With regard to your question, I want my ex to be back again because for me he is my half. That, I want him to be at my side for the rest of my life. The reason why I planned to have my ex back to me. That, I swallow all my pride and accept the things in order to revert back the pieces of our relationship. That, I love him more than my self. But to my surprise, during that time, there is a woman, who has a hidden agenda to trap him. Wherein she likes my ex too much. Wherein she will do anything and everything just to get my ex to be inlove with her. Where she get my ex to be drunk and after sometime, she claimed that she was pregnant. I dont know what to do during those times. I cried a lot. And it hurts me too much. But, somehow I realize, that I need to move on. Maybe, that is our destiny. And I must admit it.

It depends.

Dear friend, I do hope there are many aspects to keep up a healthy relation. Moreover family relationship are in a much problems increasing day by day. As in India even a small problem is worsen when it is taken to courts. Moreover I personally fell courts are not the right place to solve a family problems where relationships have much great importance. I feel relations mostly gets worsen when there is interference of a thrid part in a married life.

hi vijayanths I only has one relationship which I old fashioned as I am called a marriage and it lasted 33 years. so am not too familiar with swinging doors type of relation ships. But I would think if things were so bad he became an x why would one think that taking this person back would change anything? Its not like changing clothes to get a better look or fit,its about people that seldom change much.My view is get to know each other before either live together or getting married. Marry in haste and repent at leisure is really pretty true.

It's not the same for everyone. For some it's not okay to get back with an ex, but for others it is as long as they work out their differences. A few years ago my partner and I were having a really bad relationship. We would brake up and then get back together again. After a while the break-up became serious and it seemed like it was really the end of our relationship. We separated for three months. After that he tried to get back together with me, and I still loved him, so I took him back, but before being "officially" back we had a heart-to-heart talk about the things that we think went wrong in our relationship. After that we just felt the need to work harder on our relationship, and we did, and now we're still together after a few years. I hope it would turn out really good for us. We are an example that broken relationships don't have to be broken forever.

Hi vija yanths: I think you have made an excellent metaphore. I agree that everything won't be how it used to be after your lover betrayed you or basically did something that hurts you but I beleive in the power of love and forgiviness. If both persons love each other enough they could make things work out. People can change, people can say I'm sorry and also forgive. And in that way a broken glass can be repaired, even if I can't guaranteed that everything will be like it was before. Thanks for starting this discussion. Have a nice day. ALVARO

Let me put it this way sweetie, if i ever have to loose the one i love now, i won't even try to mend it. That will be the most pain full thing to do ever. I just wish it won't ever happen. TATA.

It is in my country a TV show"dance for you"with big prize money In the last issue when there were two weeks until final(3 pairs were still contest) ...one EX came home under the ground to care for little girl with grandma He has shot with hidden camera and the truth was:he came for money and hoping to gain from her. Program sponsor announced publicly that the many will be only for woman Then the love-ex ,suddenly disappeared

For me its just wasting of time. I mean for me you can really get back from the past.

they want their ex-es because they still love them. Like the life before with them was not successful but they accepted it and they still want to continue life with them. I agree that relationship is like a glass. When one conflict or misunderstanding occur, it can be solved and everything will be in normal again, but once another misunderstanding occur the past problems will remember and sometime brought up. BEcause the relationship had damage already. It depends on them on how they will get used to it. No matter what problems we experienced we are broke like a glass, but although that is, we still have to face an experience that have to break us again.

I always say "An EX is an EX because of a good reason". Honestly, I'm always wondering why women would always want to get their ex back. I mean, isn't it obvious enough that he isn't just into you for the long run? Worst, is partners who are cheaters are still wanted by the partners.

It depends on the situation and feelings. If your feeling is as strong as before then it is worth going back to your ex. His feelings also counts. What if he has forgotten you and has got a new relationship. Sometimes when we patch up our relationship become more strong and the closeness also but if there is nofeeling in either one side so everything will go wrong.

Yes we can paste if it breaks but there is one spot where we do paste. Right now i don't know that want my ex back or not. But still i am missing that person. May be i will be happy if my ex come back like before.

One should generate a relationship with a broad view in all angles.And,one's created that has to be maintained just like a balloon.One sharp pick changes the shape ofa baloon and you cnnot rectify that. the same thing with relationship. Many relationships have failed only becuse of misunderstanding. A broken relationship if joined will not have true love.

yes if you still love your ex you should find ways to be together again why not? unless the person did something really bad. but if you broke up bcs a misunderstanding or an arguement or you left him for someone and then you saw you made a mistake and want the person back you must fight and do all you can for it to come true^^ maybe the person also still loves you and if not show her ways that you are the right person ^^