Can Real LOVE can totally change a person?

June 12, 2010 11:42pm CST
Do you believe that REAL LOVE can really change a person? Well, it's not really impossible for a person to be changed by someone specially when it comes to attitude just for the sake of LOVE. That's what we called "Change for the betteR".
6 responses
@maean_19 (4655)
• Philippines
13 Jun 10
I think it really is possible. There is a difference when you force someone to change for you because when love is real, you do not need to say and tell him/her to change. A real love makes the person change freely because he/she wants to and not because someone dictated or told him/her to change. Moreover, Love means accepting the person for what she is and who he/she is, but not because of what he/she has. You love him/her not because of his/her strengths, but also because of his/her flaws. In my experience, I know that love is for real because I saw changes not because my boyfriend told me to change. It is love that dictated me to change. I realized that pride is not an essential factor to a relationship.
17 Jun 10
I totally agree with you!!! :D
@andy77e (5156)
• United States
16 Jul 10
No. Only a direct choice of the will can change a person. You might beg or demand, or complain until someone changes, but that's normally temporary. Soon they'll go back to their old ways.
@_Honey_ (780)
• Philippines
13 Jun 10
When you love someone, in most scenarios, you give your best shot to be deserving to be with that person. You try to make sure that you'll be able to give the best to that person and make him/her happy all the time. You try to provide them the best of what you can give and make their lives comfortable everytime. You try to lessen your weakness (bad temper, being possessive or being demanding) so as to avoid any misunderstanding with that person. You may not be able to change yourself and let go of who you've been over the years but you can be so much better.
@kquiming (2997)
• Philippines
13 Jun 10
yes, i believe so. well of course anything goes, anything is possible. there might be cases where this might not work at all, but overall, generally, i think it does. it did to me. it did to a lot of people I know. if it didn't work, there might be an explanation for that: maybe it wasn't really true love...
• India
13 Jun 10
Hi, Well sincere love always changes a person, but with this the person becomes more and more dependent on outside factors. This means, you are not changing from inside and independently. You are changing because you are getting momentary satisfaction from a person or a relationship with that person. To make that satisfaction permanent you have to depend on something that is permanent. Love of a human being for another human being changes the behavior but at the same time it makes him vulnerable. What if the person he is in love with goes away? Then it would cause great frustration and it would make the person even more rude than he was ever before. But if one can love God sincerely then he becomes able to change himself independently. But that is another aspect. Thanks God bless you
• Portugal
16 Jul 10
yes i believe that for love we can change ^^ anyway i think that love always change people at least me i also changed i became more sensitive and emotional^^ anyway the changes for love are for the best but some people for love sometimes become obsessed and change for the worst too. anyway a true love is always happy right even with difficult moments but ends happilly^^