I wish my eyes filled with tears
By vijayanths
@vijayanths (7877)
India
June 13, 2010 5:02am CST
I long to see the hand that rushes to wipe off the tears.
We recognize the true relationships only when we are facing serious problems in life, We learn more from our bad part of our lives than good perhaps.
8 responses
@vijayanths (7877)
• India
13 Jun 10
Hi, saphie I am waiting for her, meanwhile let us see what others have to say.
Meluan,
I think Vannie will have something to say here. She can talk even about Nuclear physics, this is so easy for her.
@vandana7 (100524)
• India
13 Jun 10
I couldnt agree more. I have been lucky with friends like that. I have also been lucky that god gave me wisdom in time so that I could differentiate between good friend and not so good good friend.
But vijayanths, there are situations where even if we want to we cannot be there to wipe the tears of our friends. Just reflect in your own life, were you always able to help a friend in need? I have had lapses. So I cant really hate any friend because I think they may have had reasons. But consistent failures convince me of the difference.
I just tend to keep some distance and try to be as independent as possible. :)
@vijayanths (7877)
• India
13 Jun 10
Hi, welcome to the discussion. been waiting too long with saphie for you.
Exceptions will be there in everything.
In general I try my best to help my friends and relatives( within my financial and physical capacities)
However there is one condition. They must deserve it.
I may help you for two reasons.
1. you may help me back in some form or another.
2. You may not be able to help me in any way at all but still you are a good person who would definitely help me if you could..
@vathsala30 (3732)
• India
13 Jun 10
what about me vijayanths? I want to know whether you help me or not and whether i deserve your help? just curious.
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@vandana7 (100524)
• India
13 Jun 10
Vijayanths - I agree again (what is wrong with me). But in some cases, it may not be possible to discern whether or not a friend deserves help. :)
I try to help as long as it doesnt disturb my status quo. :) I have also helped people who have been nasty to me, hoping they would reform. :)
@eshaan (6188)
• India
27 Jun 10
there are many kind of relationships vijayanths...many times some of your well wishers are so apart that they can't even see that you are crying but they will always wish very good for you...so just remember such relations and you won't need any hand to wipe your tears....only their thoughts will make you so strong that you will start smiling forgetting your pains 
@vijayanths (7877)
• India
27 Jun 10
thank you for your thoughts eshaan, that makes me stronger of course thanks dear.
@kenchiprincess (5296)
• Philippines
13 Jun 10
Relationships that have had withstand trials and storms are those relationship that are strong and true. If you run away with the relationship upon feeling the storm is coming then you will surely lose. Successful relationships doesn't fall easily it is of a strong foundation that can rise up and stand no matter what it will go through.
@vijayanths (7877)
• India
13 Jun 10
Hi, kenchiprincess, a good relationship will be like a mountain so stable and strong unshaken with storms of life. Well said and thanks.
@kenchiprincess (5296)
• Philippines
13 Jun 10
if not, it will easily fall apart since it can't withstand the storms. but then again both parties should work together to make it strong.
@tomitomi (5429)
• Singapore
13 Jun 10
These hands are like stars. Always there, shining the brightest when times are the darkest!
@vijayanths (7877)
• India
13 Jun 10
well said tomitomi, they are stars, always giving us rays of hopes.
@Buchi_bulla (8298)
• India
13 Jun 10
Since too many hands are rushing towards you to wipe your tears, I am concentrating on how to solve your problem and make you smile after the tears are wiped out. Smile please!
@vijayanths (7877)
• India
13 Jun 10
hahahahaha Buchi, that is a clever response as always. I really liked it. You are very sharp and smart.
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@vathsala30 (3732)
• India
13 Jun 10
since you are too good lots of hands will be coming forward to wipe your tears and mine will be one among them. But why do you want to waste your tears? If you want to test who really cares you, there are many ways.
@vijayanths (7877)
• India
13 Jun 10
Hi , vathsala so it is your hand that came first here, so thank you very much for that. Am I too good? May be you are too too good to think so.
Well, tell me how to test? I mean the other ways?
Just curious to know, I may not use them though...
