bad choice..
@aanabelledece (20)
Philippines
June 13, 2010 8:39am CST
i had a feeling i chose the wrong man.. yes, friends say we are perfect but when in fact they didnt see the real one.. :( i love him, but its not enough to make me want to settle with him. differences is a major factor.. whether you like it or not..
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@Kashmeresmycat (6369)
• United States
13 Jun 10
Maybe not a bad choice, just a wrong choice.
When differences are far apart, and there is no coming together on them, I think you are making the right decision not to stay with him, whether you love him or not. Many people have married, found out they made a wrong choice, and ended up divorced.
You have found this out early in the relationship and I commend you for it. Better safe than sorry.
You might take two people who are BOTH very nice, but they have different views, different likes and dislikes, different opinions, etc. It doesn't mean one person is wrong and the other is right. They are just two people who don't get along, simple.
Maybe being good friends instead would suffice for now, and as you get older who knows, you might get back together then. Good Luck!
@aanabelledece (20)
• Philippines
13 Jun 10
there are some things from him in which I cant seem to live with. sometimes, i cant imagine him being my better half..
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@Kashmeresmycat (6369)
• United States
13 Jun 10
No need to feel guilty, which is what it sounds like to me, it's ok to make a choice.
It's better to have found this out now, instead of later. You are admitting it, and that's a good thing.
Like I said, maybe you are both too young, and in a few years who know? Stay friends and see what happens....sometimes, somehow, this blooms into love over time.
@mobilecubie (820)
• Philippines
13 Jun 10
I'd say if you are happy with him then stick with him. Things will work out in the end. I you chose him not because you are happy then you will have problems.
@aanabelledece (20)
• Philippines
13 Jun 10
yes, I am sometimes happy with him.. but then even happiness isnt enough to cover our differences.. :( sad part..
@mensab (4200)
• Philippines
13 Jun 10
i think when you think about your choice, you must really reconsider it. it is not about what your friends say about the two of you. it s what you say about your own relationship. if you feel like it is a bad choice, i am sure that you have a basis for saying so. kindly evaluate again your relationship. or you may just be wasting your time with this guy.
@eLsMarie (4345)
• Philippines
14 Jun 10
I think people should spend some time into having some thorough thinking when it comes to settling down because there are some who regret in the end. If you feel like he's not yet the one then I guess it's best if you'll break up with him so that he won't expect so much from you in your relationship.
@sweetloveforeve (13120)
• Portugal
16 Jul 10
im sorry for it but if you feel you are not happy with him dont be with him just bcs your friends say you guys are perfect together. is you that is in the relation with him so if you dont feel completely happy dont be with him :( just break up. even if it hurts him is the best for both bcs you are not happy. he cant be happy with you if you dont love him like he loves you. talk with him^^
