why people only see someone from they're appearance?

Hello dear, We are given five basic senses to see, hear, smell, touch and taste. Among them the most active is our eyes. They are always working on their own. Deep down inside, lies our feelings, usually driven by our instincts. Anything that comes inside our mind must first come through the doors, namely the senses I mentioned here. So if we arrange it in order, an event or a thing is first perceived by our eyes. The eyes collect the details and give them to our mind, where it is processed in some definite logical steps. What you see is the first reaction. Ordinary people react at the very first step. More seasoned person will react after processing the complete data. It actually depends on how much experience one has in one's life. In many cases, the first reaction is not the same as the last reaction. What appears to be right may look otherwise in long run. A wise person is one who takes into consideration all possible outcomes and then reach out for an appropriate expression. Thanks God bless you