couple of 66 years of marriage, die 3 hours apart...

@victorywp (3524)
United States
June 14, 2010 8:09pm CST
this news is so touching! the husband was 90 years old, the wife was 82 years old, and they were married for 66 years! actually the wife was in a coma due to kidney failure. their children prevented the husband (their father) to visit her so that he would not feel bad. however, he hired a taxi to go on his own and was upset when he saw her. i like this line where their children said, "but he went ahead of mum and she followed him, like she always had in life." what do you feel about this? i believe everyone is longing for such a long lasting love too. this is the link to the news: http://thestar.com.my/news/story.asp?file=/2010/6/15/nation/6472096&sec=nation
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• India
16 Jun 10
This is certainly a true love what we wish to teach our youngsters of this generation. The age difference between the couple was only 8 and since they belonged to an older generation, naturally it was felt the duty of wife to follow the husband. In India, this is the practice of a successful married family.Some time back, the law called SATI was abolished. It was deemed cruel since the wife was condemned to die with the husband's corpse, no matter how much young was the wife. Even without this system, Indian women still consider it a matter of pride to follow the husbands which they explicitly enact during the marriage ceremonies. I am married to wife for the past 35 years and I wonder whether I will make up to this prestigious couple to live that much long. I am hundred percent sure my wife will follow this example only. Let the departed souls rest in peace.
@victorywp (3524)
• United States
15 Aug 10
wow, this is the first time i heard about the law called sati. how can they condemned the wife to die with the husband's corpse? really a pity towards those young wives, if this is true.
• Philippines
16 Jun 10
yes indeed a very touching story and a sad one because their amazing love story has to be end like that. Well I guess in heaven they are together. But it is hurtful to lose a parent even when their children are already matured. and their story is such an admiration to the people who have relationship. Maybe it is destined to happen for them in the first place. They say as we were born, our life has its own book. God already know when it ends. God must have written a good life for those two people.
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@victorywp (3524)
• United States
15 Aug 10
yes, i agree that everything had been destined. God knows how/where/when it will end. theirs must have been unique.
@GardenGerty (160642)
• United States
15 Jun 10
I recently saw that two people in a nursing home here went within days of one another. I would love to go that way, with my hubby. I watched my first husband die, holding his hand. I was married twenty three years the first time. My current husband and I have been married for twelve years.
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@victorywp (3524)
• United States
15 Jun 10
but because it does not happen to you the first time, so you have more years to live and you have another loving husband to care about you now. isn't that wonderful?
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@cream97 (29087)
• United States
15 Jun 10
Hi, victorywp. That is a very sad story. They have been together for 66 years. I am sure that they both have made it to Heaven. This is a very, very touching. They have lived a very long and promising time together. Their children are very proud of them, I see. May their souls rest in peace in Heaven.
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@victorywp (3524)
• United States
15 Jun 10
yes, 66 years is a very long time. it's not simple for a couple to live together lovingly for this long. this is really a sad and touching true story.
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@walijo2008 (4644)
• United States
16 Jun 10
Awww...this is a sweet story, I can only hope my marriage will last that many years, and if it does, I would want to go after my husband because I don't think I would want to live too much longer without him, especially after that many years.
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@kodukodu84 (1569)
• Malaysia
15 Jun 10
That is such a sweet, sad, wonderful, and touching story. That was 66 years for them, and I've only been with my partner for 5 years..we are also still young, so I hope our love can last long too..
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@victorywp (3524)
• United States
15 Jun 10
beat their record, kodukodu84. go for another 65 years together with your partner.
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@dawnald (85146)
• Shingle Springs, California
21 Jun 10
That's a wonderful story. If only it could be that way for everybody...
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@victorywp (3524)
• United States
6 Sep 10
do you really want it to be that way for everybody? but i think not everybody want it to be that way for them.
@celticeagle (166792)
• Boise, Idaho
15 Jun 10
That is SO romantic. I hear about this happening in one way or another all the time. They have been together for so long that they probably are in sinc and when one goes the other follows suit. It could be alittle sad if it weren't so sweet and very romantic. Their are just so emeshed in one anothers.
@celticeagle (166792)
• Boise, Idaho
16 Jun 10
I bet that was the case.
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@victorywp (3524)
• United States
16 Jun 10
according to the children, their father is a healthy person but he took the lead to go before the wife. maybe he doesn't want to live without his wife by his side. yeah, it's so romantic.
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@bhanusb (5709)
• India
19 Jun 10
Actual love is ever lasting. Sometimes we don't understand the old people. Humans become old. But the feelings never die. In an old body there lives a young and passionate person.
@victorywp (3524)
• United States
6 Sep 10
i agree with you that feelings never die. even in an old body, there lives a young and passionate person. good one, bhanusb!
@scififan43 (2434)
• United States
2 Jul 10
This story was sad. but these things do happen. one spose can't live without the other spose. I have heard of grandparents dieing 30 days apart from one anouther. such is life.
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@victorywp (3524)
• United States
6 Sep 10
yes, there are many other similar stories like this one. i have heard and read a lot from elsewhere. this is life.
• Canada
15 Jun 10
I think it very touching, I showed my husband this story. I told my husband that wouldn't be us, he told me that's not true. He said if I went first, he couldn't live without me and so he'd go too. I joked that he probably would because he couldn't live without someone to clean the house. Then I said why would you bother, it's not like anyone comes to see us.
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@victorywp (3524)
• United States
16 Jun 10
how about you (if he went first)? since you are the one who clean the house so it doesn't matters whether he is there or not (joking)?
• Canada
16 Jun 10
I think I'd be sooo happy if he left first. I don't know how things would go I may find things lonely. But I think I would be really happy.
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@quita88 (3715)
• United States
15 Jun 10
This love story is great but I wish kids would not try to protect their parents. The husband had every right to see his wife. I know they are now happy together.
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@victorywp (3524)
• United States
26 Jul 10
you are right, quita88. it's really bad for the kids to prevent their father from seeing his wife. as you said, the husband had every right to see his wife.
@quita88 (3715)
• United States
26 Jul 10
He sure did. I would want to see mine if that ever happens here.
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@hexeduser22 (7419)
• Philippines
15 Jun 10
That's true love. I suddenly remember the film "the notebook" upon reading this. That couple is a proof and a hope that true love exists in this world. Wherever they are right now I bet they are happy, much more happier than when they had walk this Earth
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@victorywp (3524)
• United States
18 Jun 10
what's the story of the notebook were about? it must be a special mystical romantic love story!
@victorywp (3524)
• United States
14 Jul 10
i never watched this film before. the storyline you wrote is nice. thanks for sharing this romantic love story, hexeduser22.
• United States
15 Jun 10
this is an amazing and heart felt story!!! I would hope that me and my husband end our years together the same way!!! I couldnt imagine living years after he has past and gone!!
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• Mexico
15 Jun 10
HI cee cee: I think it's a lovely way to die- at the same time with the person that was the one, the love of your life. I think that's beautiful, painful but beautiful at the same time. Love lasting forever. Two hearts that find themselves and that live forever after life. For me this story is really spiring as a writer. Thanks for your answer. Have a nice day. ALVARO.
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@victorywp (3524)
• United States
2 Aug 10
hi ceecee409 and starsailover! yeah it's so sweet to live and die together naturally.
@Lakota12 (42600)
• United States
15 Jun 10
VEry bitter sweet story I have ters in my eyes. At least they are together now forever and ever
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@sharay (2769)
• India
17 Jun 10
Very touching...i would the same to happen in my life too, i would like him to die first so that he does not cry for me...
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@victorywp (3524)
• United States
6 Sep 10
i thought you are going to say you want him to die first so that he does not get a chance to find another after you.
@insulin (2479)
• Philippines
15 Jun 10
Well I hope that my love life will be lucky like this and I guess this is totally touching.There are really few people right now stay married and a lot more do divorce and it will be not surprising in the next ten years that maybe marriage will not exist anymore.I am totally impress with these couple.Totally the love is there and how they watch every and take care of themselves.It is just amazing.
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@victorywp (3524)
• United States
26 Jul 10
i truly agree with you, insulin. nowadays really few people stay married for more than 50 years. it seems to be like a trend where people marry and divorce within months.
• Philippines
15 Jun 10
Hi, a sad story indeed! But maybe they're both happy now because their unique relationship lasted just what they wanted it. I think they are the happiest couple at the other side of the world - "God's kingdom".
@victorywp (3524)
• United States
2 Aug 10
yeah, they might be one of the happiest couple in another realm or dimension that nobody knows about.
• United States
15 Jun 10
this is very sad! i wouldn't be able to live without the one i love! it would be so hard to have that happen.
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@victorywp (3524)
• United States
29 Jul 10
it's hard to face it losing the one we love. but i still believe there are other reasons for us to continue living.
• Netherlands
15 Jun 10
I have only been married for a year and a half but I would love to make it to 66 years although my husband has to reach the age of 98 to do so (not impossible...you never know what happens in life...)
@victorywp (3524)
• United States
2 Aug 10
that's good, ninafrerichs. but why not aiming to 70 years instead?