How long is a real relationship for?

United States
June 15, 2010 12:58pm CST
i have had tons of little relationships, but i don't think you can call them relationships. so how long do you think a real relationship is!
5 responses
• Portugal
12 Jul 10
a true relationship is that one where the guy and the girl really love each other and it lasts for long long time^^ and those where they share everything and really care and are there for each other^^ thats a true relationship^^ also is that one with whom you feel so happy that dont want other person again those that you say i love only this guy and dont want other in my life^^ a true love^^ but if you are commited with someone thats already a real relationship. a little relation is like those flirting ones but if you are bf and gf i think is already a real one^^
• United States
15 Jun 10
as long as you were in love and together you were in that relationship at that time!! Its impossible to say how long because its differnet for everyone!!! Some people wait till that first kiss some wait for that special night!!! It really depends!
@hanuma34 (819)
• India
15 Jun 10
Hi Elizabeth, Cannot believe you had tons of little relationships at your age. If it is so they cannot really be called relationships. Well, to the other question real relationship cannot be assessed by the length of association. We presume the longer the relationship the closer to being real. Not necessarily so, young lady. It all depends on age, emotions, temperament and so on.
• Philippines
15 Jun 10
A real relationship does not last long but last forever. :)
@kodukodu84 (1569)
• Malaysia
15 Jun 10
I think depends on how big the relationship is :-)....????...:-) We don't measure a real relationship by counting months and years, sweetie. When you like the guy and the guy liked you back, then you too went out together..then soon he said "I love you" to you, and you also said "I love you too" to him with smile....then the next day you two continue going out together but more romantic probably. Then that is also called real relationship and it's only valid until you two decide to break-up. Hope this answer your question...take care :) -