Do you monitor your child's TV programs?

India
June 16, 2010 8:27am CST
I do, My son is almost 5 years old, and I do monitor what he watches on television as well as the games he plays on the computer. I do not let him watch violent movies/programs nor let him play violent/inappropriate games. He complains that his older friends watch wrestling, but he isn't allowed to, but I am trying to protect his young mind. How about you? Do u monitor what your child watches?
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@tomitomi (5429)
• Singapore
16 Jun 10
Our youngest son is seven. And what we don't want him to see we don't see either. We have to be discerning enough to choose the right kind of programs we want him to see because we can't just switch on and off. We have to be a little ahead of him, plan his schedule wisely and maximize prime-time viewing.
• India
18 Jun 10
I agree tomitomi, teach what you do is teh best saying ever said. If we watch all the violent stuff and avoid the child from doing it, it wouldn't make any sense nor be justified. We better avoid that stuff so he gradually learns from it. Thanx 4 ur nice response...
@tomitomi (5429)
• Singapore
18 Jun 10
Simple yet interesting topic. Keep them coming. Thanks!
@meowcow (931)
• Philippines
16 Jun 10
We try as much as possible to not make decisions for the children of our house. We have to trust that we are raising them right and honestly, violent programming or "inappropriate language" isn't really a big deal for us television wise as we have found out from research that children are more likely to copy real life than television or other media. In some other studies they even found that a little escape in the form of a violent game or a tv program that contains a little blood is healthier to a child's brain, it's just that some adults don't take the time to explain this to them that's the problem. Anyway, in my opinion, wrestling isn't that much violent for a 5 year old. A lot of people I know including me have grown up to lead happy and healthy lives and we grew up watching WWE wrestling. Children can definitely understand what they are watching when you explain it well enough. In our case, at these times, we generally have just learned not to let the children watch too much television in general, so they can focus more on books and stuff. Unfortunately we are all a little bit of TV addicts as well so we just try to balance everything as much as possible. As I assume you and all other parents do. Just doing what they think is best. Good luck and I hope this helped even if just a little. Interesting topic! ++!!
• India
18 Jun 10
Yeah you are right from one point of focus, well we do try our best not to make choices 4 our children, but we end up doing so. As you mentioned I do try telling him and making him understand what's right and what;s not, but I just observed that the moment he watched Dark knight, even after i explaining him that its fictitious, he started to act like batman, he even picked up a fight with his friend (telling me that he attacked Joker!). So, I avoid these things as much as possible. I guess as he progresses in age, he can better understand and grasp a meaning to action.
@meowcow (931)
• Philippines
18 Jun 10
Oh I see what you mean now. I can understand how scary and even stressful that can get for a parent to have to deal with such a situation that your child has made. But at least he didn't pretend to be the joker right? In this situation at least he equates himself to a good guy, so at least that is a brighter side of it. Anyway, I'm no psychiatrist but from my experiences as a kid I was practically the same also, and I was never entirely conscious of my actions, I was just having fun or something. Then like you said, later on in life we all tend to adjust with a little guidance. You sound like a good parent, and I really appreciate hearing about good parents cos nowadays most parents almost sound as selfish as their kids. Kudos to you my friend for that. Whether you choose to let him watch WWE or not I'm sure he will turn out well because he will never feel like he is unloved. And at the end of it all, that is the Golden Rule for raising children. "For in the eyes of children, mother is God." Best of luck to you and your family and have the best time raising your kids!
@indahfth (11161)
• Indonesia
16 Jun 10
Of course, I monitor my children when playing games or watching television. But I was never banned. I always accompany my child every watch television, I always explain to my children what is good and what is bad with the television show, my child is watching.
• India
18 Jun 10
Explaining them what's good and what's bad is essential if we want children to understand what they are watching.
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@indahfth (11161)
• Indonesia
18 Jun 10
yes, explain better. than we prohibit. Because we do not have to cover anything that happens in this world. Violence or bad in this world should we explain to our children.
@dorannmwin (36392)
• United States
22 Jun 10
As parents today, I honestly don't think that we would be doing our job as parents if we weren't monitoring what our children see and hear and the television and on the computer. When it comes to television viewing, I typically keep the tv on a kid friendly station and I will hide the remote so the kids can't change the channel. Then when it comes to their computer/internet usage, I've downloaded a children's browser where I have to manually approve the websites that the kids want to use, but it is easy for them to navigate.
@Jotomy (6322)
• India
17 Jun 10
Hi keep_onwatch, i will monitor my child, what he is watching in the TV. Mostly cartoons he will watch but still cartoons program too using bad words and ugly things, which i want to restrict. But some are interesting and they can learn many things, like making dolls, colouring etc., i prefer those programs. Some IQ / quiz program i ask him watch.
• India
18 Jun 10
You are right, now-a-days, even cartoons contain some ugly words, and we have to carefully monitor what they watch as they can imitate them.