Relationships and stupid people, do not mix.

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Okay, So my brother just got married recently. The girl complains. And I know that women usually complain alot.. I'm one myself.. but this is just rediculous to me. She is sad when my brother is at work, and can't wait for him to get home.. Then she complains about him when he is home.. She complains that he sleeps until he has to get up to get ready for work.. He was sleeping the other day and one of HER kids threw pancakes in the fish tank.. and M&Ms. Now, naturally.. don't you think that if they did that, she should clean it out? like, immediately... Apparently not.. She got pissed because my brother wouldn't get out of bed to clean out the fish tankk for her after HER kids did that.. Why does he need to get up and clean that out, when all she has to do is lift up her sleeves and get to it? She complained before because she just got a puppy. And it started messing in the house and such, so my brother said they need to get rid of the dog.. She started immediately complaining on facebook saying she is never allowed to keep her animals and never gets to keep anything that makes her happy. Keep in mind, my brother makes 500 to 700 dollars every two weeks.. and within just a few days its blown.. and they get 400 dollars in food stamps.. which is used also within a few days... they do not know how to budget money at all.. Plus, she didn't clean up after the puppy or clean in general. I went into their house recently, and as soon as I stepped in, I wanted to walk right back out. Hah! It smelled that bad.. Back to the puppy, they did end up getting rid of it.. but, she got a cat instead.. that happened to be pregnant. She didn't realize that if you are going to have an animal... you need to take care of it, and you need to have the MEANS to take care of it.. and you need to learn that the important stuff comes first.. On another note.. she isn't the best at taking care of her kids either.. I babysat for her for a little while.. so I saw some things.. She would never change their clothes or diapers before bringing them to me.. which, if they weren't so bad, I could understand... but, their diapers would look like they havent been changed in 2 days.. poo was soaked through their jammies. I mean, come on.. why leave your child in that? She would let them eat off the floor in the garage, which was a plywood floor.. They would mash their food into it, then continue to eat it.. and when I would say something, she would respond, "that's okay, they do it all the time." Why would you let them? And having two kids, instead of being able to pay me for babysitting, under that christmas tree that year, how many presents were under that? Way more than a 1 and 2 year old needs.. thats for sure.. there were about 50 presents under there... what are they gonna do with all that? seriously... Anyway, just thought I would share my experience and story with you all... and see if anyone has any feedback or would like to share there own story and thoughts. :) Remember, Relationships and stupid people do not mix. Terri.