pissed

gosh that is what im undergoing now. we have this small organization with less than 10 employees yet still a few people loves to do backbiting and back stabbing. im really feel hurt most of the time since when i do talk to friends i am sincere evrytime i say anything. however when i turn my back, so many foolish words are given to me.

I think you are right about that there are people that wear a mask, but i call them two faced aswell as sometimes users.I have found that since i have got older it is easier to see who is friend and who is not a friend.I think friends are people that will tell you what they feel about things aswell as they do not stab you in the back to other people.

yes, we really find out who our friends are. we don't need those kind of people in our lives. they just drag you down. my character grows stronger from the hurts i experience, and i don't want my character to reflect the personalities of so-called friends who use and hurt me.

I am REAL. I never use someone, nor do I pretend to be someone. I have friends to hangout, get help, and all that junk. I hate people who use others. Its annoying and sad. But you should compromise your anger. Your even scaring me! Good luck with the new roommates, funorb12

I also hate people like that. They always look good in front of me. But I always leave them like that. As long as they do not harm me, I will not get angry. I do not care about people willing to do anything with me, which is important I do not feel disturbed. I am a person who sometimes behave in front of them, ecause I do not want the noise occurs. The important thing is I do not have any problems with them, if they are good with me, I'm also going well with them.

Me too! I really hate those kinds of people.. Those who are good and pretending to be your friend in front of you, but whenever you're not around saying something bad against you.. I really hate it.. BACKBITERS!.. I feel the same way with you.. Cause me, If I don't like you, I won't talk to you and pretend...I hate it.

I know that you are really angry but you should realise that the reality is cruel and the world is full of people who just pretend that they are friends and they just want to use you for their needs. They are naturally good at pretending friendship and you have to be as clever as they are to see what is under the mask. Real friend help you when you get into troubles when you really need is and this is the way how to eliminate those ones who are fake.

Overcome evil with good. Treat them the way you would want to be treated.

I am just undergoing such painful yet somehow pissed moments. I am annoyed but meanwhile I must admit that I am really sad. we are friends since we were sophomores. we did get along well at the time. and after graduation we decided to to abroad for further education together and we appied for the same flat. the problem came since then. I always got a feeling that she didnt care me or at least dindt treat the way as i treat her. I was disappointed. the cold war went on and off for a while and didnt get any better until we came bk home. two months ago, she was still looking for a job, and there was an oppotunity in my city, so i asked her to come and share my house with her. everthing ought to be good, but the same problems occurred again. I am so pissed cause I don't feel her attention to me. she left my city yesterday, and I called her, it still seems that she ignored my feelings. I shouted but she was clam. I burst into tears. and I know that might be the closure. I really lost my sense of secure.