me and my boyfriend broke up just because of jealousy
By edlene
@edlene (48)
June 17, 2010 4:20am CST
yes we did yesterday...it's very hard for me to move on because we had the same company and we always see each other everyday...i love him so much that's why it's hard for me to forget him...i'm always asking myself why i have to feel this...i really hate myself because i'm so inlove with him...i want to forget him in an easy way but i know it's hard for me to do it...everyday i feel so hurt!!!
this time i want someone to advice me the right thing to do....i want to forget him...please help me....i want to move on!!!!
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9 responses
@spicy_gab03 (13)
• Australia
18 Jun 10
totally agree here, tell him what you feel. Honesty IS the best policy in this situation. He needs to know, and you'll feel better for it. If you already told him, what was his reaction? Depending on how this goes is what you do next. Give time as well, sometimes people change. Jealousy is a hard thing to deal with. Especially for girls. Has your friend done something with someone from your past? What reasons has she given you to feel jealous of her? All these things come into account when deciding to break up
@princess8881 (1630)
• South Korea
17 Jun 10
who suggest the break up?and why is he or you are jealous? sometimes pride can affect everything so if you still love him and if you think that he still love you...then why not try it work it on again...sometimes there are times that we also have lower ourselves for the boys:) specially if you are not sure if it is your mistake.
@cream97 (29086)
• United States
6 Aug 10
Hi, edlene. It sounds like you are not over him! I think that you should just get rid of everything about him that reminds you of him. Holding on to memories can be a mutha. Trust me, I know.. It is hard to get over someone that you have loved dearly, but you will.
@sweetloveforeve (13120)
• Portugal
12 Aug 10
edlene sorry for what happened :( sure it is hard for you bcs you love him and didnt think he would break up but you said it ended bcs of jealousy wasnt? but jealousy on his or your side? you know in a relation is good to be jealous and is normal but not too too jealous. also sure is hard you forget him bcs you see him everyday. stop to see him for some days and try to meet other people too. your friends and his are the same so you can meet new friends also and hang out with them too so you dont see him always. sure you can continue being with your friends that are also his but you dont need to hang out with them all the time or you can but when he is not around. this is all very recent so you need to be away from him for a few time. if you continue seeing him everyday your feelings wont disappear bcs you will always have the hope he still loves you. also are you sure your relation cant work anymore? maybe if you stop being so jealous it can work or if he stops to bcs i dont know if was you or him the jealous one. if we love someone we need to trust have a bit of jealous sure but not always always. anyway if you need to talk im here^^
@krnavtr (285)
• India
23 Jul 10
As saying goes "The one who mean the most are always the one we hurt the most"so in my opinion i would say feeling jealousy to each other is the way we care as action can be understood more than the words.If you really cant tolerate than you better forget him and go for another one,You might get a better one than before as guys are like stars.For the timing to forget him,u just go through books and magazines,listen to music and always stay in a group and never and ever pinpoint his name.One thing never stay alone that will make you to recollect all.De late his numbers and messages from your cell.Hope he is your false lover which had entered your life,scanned your pocket,increase your tension,download your worries and deleted your happiness.
@dnatureofdtrain (5273)
• Janesville, Wisconsin
17 Jun 10
When you just break up with someone, You go through a greiving period.
Just like if you lost a pet, or a loved one.. who passed on.
So give yourself time to grieve over the loss of the relationship.
Engage yourself in other fun activities and things you could not do..
when you were in the relationship.. Find a new hobby, watch some movies..
Sometimes its good to watch mushy love romantic movies for some after a break up to cry and let it all out.. Others like to watch other things to distract their mind from the love and romance... Find others going through the same thing, and make friends with them and comfort eachother :)
@pepinho (117)
• Slovak Republic
18 Jun 10
Hi I am sorry about your breaking up well to be honest it takes some time till your pain will pass away. You should go somewhere with your friends and have a fun. You never know maybe you will meet another guy who will fall in love with you. :)
@rosie230 (1704)
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17 Jun 10
I guess the only answer is time, that is what I have been told, and how things did get better for me in the past. Jealousy is such a bad thing to become involved in a relationship. Who broke it off, was it you or him? If you want to move on and forget about him then you should find something to distract you from thinking about him, and give yourself time. The more time you take to recover yourself the better each day will be, until eventually you feel more yourself. It is one of the hardest things to break up with someone when you love them so much.
