life is so unfair!!
By gracielle
@gracielle (346)
Philippines
June 17, 2010 5:12am CST
why does some people have all the luck, happiness, wealth, love, while some dont.. im not a bad person, but i really dont seem to understand life. all my life i grew up, facing all the hardship in life a man can have. i dont feel the love of my mother that much, i always feel like im the second choice. my friends were really the friends that i can depend on, my family always puts me down. My husband cheated on me,i never really get to experienced happiness & the ease of life.while some of the people i know who we're mean, cruel in nature but get to have a nice life, having a golden spoon on their plate. it envy them, because i never get to have the chance to enjoy it. but still im happy with my life, for i grew up to be a person who's thrifty, contented of what i have, i never asked my parents for money just for personal used. every peso i have i saved it & think twice before i spend it. despite all the hardships i faced, im still that & blessed that all of this things made me a much better & stronger person. & strongly believe that someday somehow, i can live the life i would want to a much better life.. just always be a positive thinker. there's a rainbow always after the rain..
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8 responses
@apsara60 (6610)
• Israel
17 Jun 10
Dear gracielle,
I have just crossed my age of 50.Now when I sit behind and think of life, I think very much like you. In fact I have started to feel that life has no meaning. Our Parents brought us in this world because their parents brought them. I also have two children and may be in future they will have more children.......we are going on bringing more and more life to this world, without even thinking once, that is this world worth living any more.
Well, let me come back to your discussion. All that I can say to you and to myself is that lets not look at people having better life than us, but at those who have been more unlucky than us. At Least we are not sick, at least all parts of our body are healthy and we are not burden to anyone, at least we are intelligent and not mentally retarded.Think about those who lose everything in one night earthquake, floods, fire, accidents.......omg.....there is so much sorrow spread all over and out of that, we have been blessed with some moments of peace and happiness, so why not smile instead of complaining.......
, do you agree with me dear , I think you will..
...have a nice day.
, do you agree with me dear , I think you will.....have a nice day.
@gracielle (346)
• Philippines
17 Jun 10
yes, you're right.. despite of my sorrow im still happy cause i was blessed with a son, who,s always making me happy.have a nice day,...
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@sathya264 (173)
• India
17 Jun 10
because it is depends on the star group and sign.but hard work will definitely makes you luck ,happy some time but not wealth but with lot of love.
@gracielle (346)
• Philippines
17 Jun 10
i don't really believe much on star & signs, some one did said to me that when i was about 6 or 7 yrs old, someone from my relatives cursed me but not on purpose. because he/she envied my father who was the apple of the eye of my grandfather, i do believe on that.
@apsara60 (6610)
• Israel
17 Jun 10
I don't think there is any direct connection of stars and signs with our real life, as an Astrologer who decides this himself is a simple human being who can never be perfect, and no human being can rule life. Actully there is now explaination to why life is unfair to some........we have to accept life as it comes...the sooner we accept it , the better for us.
@mr_pearl (5018)
• India
18 Jun 10
Hi Gracielle... I agree that life is unfair with a few people... I have faced a life somewhat like you... I am glad that your hardships have made you stronger and you look at things positively... There is a lot to learn from you...
My hardships made me curse the day I was born... A highly strict family... Regular beatings at home and in school... I grew up to become a weak willed fellow during my college days... After I started working and became independent, for the first time, I became a strong person... But then, a girl came into my life and blasted the hell... She exploited me of all my hard earned money and ditched me finally... I spent 2 years drinking... frustrated! Unhappy!!!
Then, I met with my fiancee... And now, life seem to get better... It'll be better soon... I wish the same for you... Forget the sorrrows and look at the future, make it better... Good Luck! God bless you...
@indahfth (11161)
• Indonesia
18 Jun 10
I also do not feel the justice of my life. I can not be happy like other people feel. They were happy with their families. They were happy with their friends, they are happy with their jobs. But now I choose not to feel the injustice of life. I shall continue to perform and create happiness for myself without having to wait for someone to give me happiness. Happiness can not be searched, but could we create.
@peace001 (726)
• China
18 Jun 10
right,life is unfair,and there are somethings that we cannot change them in the world,but we should always remember you are the special in the world.and all the things happend to you has ressoned,and what you do is just to face the things happend and do all your best.just do it and never look back ,just move on ,and one day you will find that your life is so amasing.
good day
@maggiecuiling (65)
• China
18 Jun 10
In fact everyone will met difference unhappy life, some divorced,some unhappiness, some sick etc.So when some unlucky things happened to you just face it and donot think a lot and try to make me happier. I often meet unhappy things in my life, but I try to make me happy and not to think it again.You are right that there is a rainbow always after the rain......
@Ruby722 (796)
• China
18 Jun 10
Hey gracielle,try to be stronger,life always unfair,not only to you,to most of us.
We work hard and get a little pay,we love someone,someone doesnt cherish for us
We love our family figure out nobody wroth it.Just adjust your attitude we still need survive right? Sometimes i asked myself did i do something wrong,why god treat me like this way?.But the only thing we should do is look the bright side.good luck
@emjsar15 (140)
• Philippines
17 Jun 10
hi gracielle! even though we want to live our life the way we want to be we can't do anything about it, even we strive hard to get all the things we want we cannot have it, it's because it is not God plans for us. All the things in this world came from God and not from our own ability. God created us, even the good and the bad are blessed and He gave all the things in this world for all our needs. So you are wrong to say that life is so unfair because all is fair in the eyes of God. God wants us to learn from all the trials He has given us because He loves us and we are one of the chosen to be a child of God and we are so lucky because not all are chosen to be. So, you must say you are blessed because God loves you and you have the wisdom from God to understand others and you understand your situation being neglected and even they don't treat you right.
