Back to being strangers again...

That's part of life. Life is not permanent. Everything here in this world is temporary and we need to accept that. Thats why quality time is very important to share every moment with family or friends.

this is not weird for me anymore because it happened with me before 1 year .....there are a lot of people in this world who are mean .....only they are responsible for these conditions ...its the real life so we have to be in the stream of life ...this is the way how life goes ...wht we have to do is just be cool let it happen what is written......tell that person that "IF U DONT LOVE ME THEN HATE ME BUT PLEASE DONT AVOID ME BECAUSE IT HURTS MORE " iam sure u wont be strangers anymore happy mylotting

Yes, I have encountered such situation. But those situations happened for a reason. Some of my friends whom I though were friends did something along the way to put me down. I never know how and why they did it considering that I have done a lot of good thing for them. In the end, they treated me as if I was nothing and even said some words that made me look bad to other people. Well, life is like that. Now, I am more careful in choosing my friends. I do not hate them, nor do I have a grudge on them. I do not have the intention of getting revenge. What I put in my mind is that they are not worthy to be my friends.

Yes, I experience that most of the time. I am not really a friendly person and I just wait for people to say "hi" to me. The worst thing is, sometimes I forget their names, even if we were together for like 6 months or a year, I still have a tendency to forget their names. I dont really like how I am towards some of my friends. I just dont know how to change. I think I am just like that to friends who are not so close to me.

yes marie :( thats strange. it happened to me. i had this best friend that i loved so much. he cared for me too i even thought maybe he liked me too. but maybe not bcs then he started to act different with me, ignoring me. even doubted about me when i said to him i didnt do something and he doubted he didnt know if was me or other person saying the truth. really made me so sad. now i dont talk with him anymore. i was wishing he said something but he didnt so. i really must let him go :(

Yes, I find it weird too. I used to have a best friend . I had not seen her for many years. By the time we see each other again. It's like seeing a total stranger. I guess , it's the long absence that did it...

It is very sad when one loses a good chum, but life happens and people sometimes are pulled into other directions. If one has a good relationship with a set of friends, it's not out of bounds to ask why the group of friends have decided to abandon the person who is currently outside the group.

Hello Elsemarie, even though people had been friends for a long time, they can change and that's why theres a saying of "friends come and go" no matter how much we hated, it happens to us. it has happened to me more than enough to realized that you can have friends but you can never tell your secrets to them.

Yes it is very weird. When I was with my children's father, I loved him soooo much even after he decided that he didn't want to be married anymore I still loved him. Once he started disrepecting me and not taking care of his children my love for him evaporated.

That is just how life goes. You can't rally change that. I wouldn't think much about it as well, even though this sounds hard, but most of the time you are better off without them.