do you see yourself get married someday?

Philippines
June 17, 2010 6:13am CST
before i used to imagine myself getting married, be with the men on my dreams, but then again reality strikes me!!! not all ladies have that luck in the world.i was with my boyfriend now,live-in to be exact. we already have a son & getting married is way too far on my mind now. but still i wished someday we could be together legally..
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18 responses
• Portugal
15 Jul 10
dont worry for sure it will happen^^ you are happy living with him right? you love each other so for sure your dream will come true^^ also remember this even if you are not married legally in your heart and in his heart you are already together and this is what matters the most^^ also dont worry you will see that soon he asks you to marry him^^ a romantic surprise^^ just wait^^
• Portugal
15 Jul 10
me also i want to marry with day with a guy that really loves and care always for me^^ and that i love also^^ what matters more is being with the person we love married or not^^ what matters is the feelings both share^^ and the happiness one give to the other right? dont give up of your dream bcs it will come true just keep on loving your bf^^
@mokkka (881)
• Bulgaria
17 Jun 10
Why not this is something that is quite normal in everybody's life.We live first with our parents then with other people but at a certain moment we ought to create a family so that our lives are not pointless.What so strange you find in the idea of marriage.For me it is just a posh party which will leave lots of memories in mmy mind.
• Philippines
17 Jun 10
i have just run through life that's very rocky & shaky, especially to relationship wise with the man i'm with. i also saw the depressing reality of how marriage was destroyed & useless & gone to waste. that's why this topic means to me.. you may not understand me, but its ok. i still honor your thoughts. thanks anyway for your response.
@lbbaby (489)
• China
26 Jun 10
Well, as for me, marriage means the right guy on the right time. Unfortunately, it's not the right time yet and the right guy hasn't appeared. I believe you'll have a very romantic wedding that is hard to forget.
• Philippines
18 Jun 10
I have always dreamed about my perfect wedding, but now, my boyfriend and I are still trying to save money for it, though I think it's still a long long way to go before we would be able to save just enough for the wedding. It's really expensive to get married these days, I want it to be simple, yet I still want it to be perfect, cause we'll just be getting married once right, so why not make it as beautiful as we can..
@ericpapasit (1274)
• Philippines
17 Jun 10
Hi there! grace but don't depend on luck but trust the Lord that you can have the best person in life... Trust the Lord on that matter, as I am doing now
• Philippines
17 Jun 10
• Philippines
18 Jun 10
Marriage is a dream of almost all couples out there. Marriage should be planned. If you really love each other, then there would still be that chance that someday the two of you will be married.
@attente (986)
• Philippines
18 Jun 10
of course! it's everyone's dream!! Some says getting married had ever crossed their mind, not even once. I don't think that's true. I can still remember when we, together with my childhood friends, would have a game about marrying. As a matter of fact, I already became a bride in my dreams! Someday, I would be with my guy, the guy that God Almighty have reserved for me. be blessed with your family gracielle! I wish you luck with you and your boyfriend! :)
@smiley83 (1534)
• Malaysia
17 Jun 10
Of course this is part of my dream.. I'm really hoping to get married after i'm done with my studies... I have no problems to get engaged instead of having just a relationship where i'm might not be sure of whether or not he is the one.. Personally, I would prefer to go for an engagement but marriage would be after my studies...
• China
18 Jun 10
My boyfiend asks me to marry him next year and I think I will be happy to do that. Our romantic relationship will last for three years by next year and I have read some newspapers that it will be good for an item to get married after dating each other for three years. Because three years of time will enable you to approximately know whether you two will get along with each other within a marriage and it is neither too long to make you feel bored with each other. I had many quarrels with my boyfriend in the first year, so I spent a lot of time to study on the difference between men and women, the right way to express my feelings properly and so on. So during the second year of our relationship, we get along with each other very well, we only had several tiny disputes and what's more we became the best friends and we trusted each other much more. Wish you a happy marriage oneday.
@bestylish (922)
• Philippines
18 Jun 10
I did thought about it but I don't really expect to get married. WIth my personality, no guy will last. HAHA! Also, I am the type of person who easily gets bored. If I am not entertained, I no longer have interest in anything. TO me, as long it's entertaining, I will stick to it. I never had a relationship and I don't feel like having one. But... if I really am meant to get married someday... I feel sorry for the guy I'll marry. I hope you will have a wonderful relationship! Happy mylotting!
• India
18 Jun 10
I am married but i think live-in relationship is a better option.After marriage people gets into a lot of obligations of life,many unwanted restrictons.But if you are destined to get married then you cant do anything.Here God is the ultimate
@chuck2 (183)
• Philippines
18 Jun 10
It seems that you are confused in getting married with your boyfriend. maybe there's something wrong between you and your BF, but don't worry i heard a lot of case like this most of them were very happy eventhough they weren't legally married.
@Sonia3 (21)
17 Jun 10
I may marry if they legalise gay marriage but even if they did I'm not sure that I would. I don't really see the point.
@Riesu77 (16)
• United States
17 Jun 10
I have thought about marriage before, I observe the question in my head for a long time. Yes it would be great to be married but i feel I'm too young to be married at this point in my life. Plus i never really understood why i need a piece a paper saying i love this person, if your already with someone you should be grateful that your already with them and that your in love. There are so many people out there that will never know that feeling.
@se7enthbird (8307)
• Philippines
17 Jun 10
i am married for 7 years already, and before that we live together for 3 years. being married and living together is the same, in my opinion. the only different is a piece of paper. i never thought that i will find someone that i will tie the knot with. it came in an unexpected time and place. now we still have ups and downs but we face it with holding hands.
• United States
17 Jun 10
I hope to be married with in a year, only because i am getting older and my boyfriend is already in his thirties, so getting married is important to me. I do not have any kids because i am not married. I will only have a child when i am married because i believe that is the right way to do everything. I would love to have a family and for us to live on our own and be together every night because now we are livingat our parents we don't spend all the time together that we would like to. Enjoy mylotting and have a great day.
@kharlav (1669)
• Philippines
17 Jun 10
YES, i can see myself getting married someday. I just went to a wedding today. And when I saw my friend, the bride, walk down the aisle, I imagined myself doing the same way, and even wanted to get married soon. lol. But I still don't have a groom so that is still far from happening. I believe that everything will depend on you, to choose to get married or not. I know live-in is normal now, but marriage is still very rewarding, it is still important to get married and be together legally. And for your child to have the family name of his father.
@Matrick (14)
• Germany
17 Jun 10
I think that the decision to be married should be made at the right time and only if you 100% about it. There is no need to rush things.