Don't love if you can't trust

@aamir007 (129)
India
June 17, 2010 8:07am CST
Love is blind, this phrase from one corner to another corner of the world is mooching round.I am here to say only one thing to my friends dont love if you cant trust on your partner, love is gift of happiness so enjoy and spread it without any kind of hesitation....
4 responses
@vathsala30 (3732)
• India
20 Jun 10
Indeed love is blind. When one is in love, they will not bother about caste, religion, age and deformity too if any. But if the trust has gone after obtaining a strong proof of cheating or adultery, every thing cease to be interested and after that our love will not be the same and genuine as before
@aamir007 (129)
• India
20 Jun 10
I agree with you word by word
@eurekafemme (5874)
• Philippines
18 Jun 10
I beg to disagree with you on the phrase that Love is blind. It is the lover that is blind, my dear.. Refusing to see what is obvious in the pretense of being in love. Sigh, we always blame things on L O V E, ei.:-) What comes first, is it trusting that person then eventually falling in love with him/her or loving that person and then teach yourself to trust him/her fully as expected of you? We can't teach our heart what to feel nor we can't control what are brains are telling us. Only, we can chose to believe it or not. As well as we can succumb to our heart's desire to love or opted to fight it. Whichever way we choose, it is always a risk that we are taking. So, I'd say take the chances of falling in love than live a life not knowing how to love and be loved.:-) Thank you for the add, by the way.:-)
@aamir007 (129)
• India
18 Jun 10
you are allright at your position, just i have given a example of a phrase and as per love is its divine,nobody knows when it enters in our hearts so when it enters let it to be go with trust....
@sender621 (14890)
• United States
17 Jun 10
Love and trust must go hand in hand. You can't have one without the other. Relationships are doomed to fail if love and trust are not bound together. You can't be happy in llife witrhout the benefit of love and trust in your life.
@rosie230 (1700)
17 Jun 10
I do agree with you to a certain extent... however if you are already in a loving relationship and something happens that reduces that trust you have for your partner, by a little or completely then it is much easier to say than do. Trust is important in a relationship, and if you dont have any trust then it will make it very hard to continue to have a relationship with this person. Love does not disappear quickly once trust has been broken, and I think this is the hardest part.