Which one is best love or arranged marriage?

@laratri (253)
India
June 17, 2010 10:32am CST
I think love with arranged marriage is best. Give me a suggestion with yourself. Thanks Laratri
7 responses
@KMaroon (266)
• India
17 Jun 10
Hi laratri Well both the marriages have its own advantages. I personally believe that what ever marriage it may be it depends on the understanding between the couple through out their life. A marriage is successful when they understand each other and live happily through out their lifetime.
@laratri (253)
• India
17 Jun 10
hi... Yeah, Exclant discussion... Thanks Laratri
@besthope44 (12123)
• India
3 Aug 10
Since ours is love marriage, so i would say its the best, But as far marriages, love is necessary for both arranged and love.
@med889 (5940)
18 Jun 10
My two sisters had an arranged marriage and they have been able to adapt with their in-laws very well but it took much time, I love someone and we are getting married in two years so I know him and the family very well before marriage and I think it won't take us to much time to be at ease with the members.
@swn_chik (266)
• India
26 Jul 10
As for me, I think arranged marriage work better than love marriage because we ll have more time to know that particular person and i think parents wont have bad choice for their own daughter/son and as we all know marriages are not always perfect. In love marriage we know the person and till the time we are ready for marriage...then the situation changes,there wont be same quantity of love...and moreover people changes faster .
@krnavtr (285)
• India
23 Jul 10
In my opinion i would say that best love is better.We know the real character of a best love and i think our life will be very nice if we live with our love than a arrange marriage.whether he is good or bad i would prefer my love only Rather than staying with the one that had been arrange by my parents.
@jose431 (164)
• India
28 Jul 10
I too thinks arranged marriage is best for me because they will start to love each other only after they get marry and they star their new love and life,in case of love they finish will their love after getting marry.
@smiley83 (1534)
• Malaysia
17 Jun 10
I believe the arranged marriage is the one...Actually, I used to think that the love marriage is the best where the couples would be responsible for their choices and already know each other through the relationship period, however, half their percentage doesn't seem to make a perfect sweet marriage relationship and things would somehow start changing dramatically as they might even feel bored after some years of their marriage.. wherein, the arranged marriage is somehow different as they would start knowing each other during the engagement and the rest would be after marriage... That is my guess