will u remain single forever just because u didn't succeeded in love????

There is this saying "love is like a battle field,prepared to get scared " So,when you fall in love,you must consider the fact to get hurt,scared and even losing. We can never hold love in the palm of our hands,not even marriage can make it last forever. If you ever lost your love and never succeeded with the first one,maybe,there is another love that's meant for you. Another love that is stronger and worth more than the first one. Some people remain single,not becoz they doesn't succeed with their first love. They choose to be single becoz,that is what they wanted to be in their lives. Have a good day always

hi after having had 33 years of a happy marriage, I decided that I would never remarry as once was enough and nobody could begin to be anything like my hubby was. So I have a happy singlehood. I loved my husband too much too ever replace him with another man as they would never measure up. lol lol

i guess,i would be! yes,some people really did want to be loved and be in love to the person they wanted to spend their lives with. but some relationships really don't last that long.and as for me, if i can't find the love of my life who would understand and respect and support me all the way,better be single,at least no hassle to live the life i am always facing everyday. but still,i am not closing doors to relationships,it just takes time and i know there is still a man destined for me that will make my life complete. i want someone to ave and hold for the rest of my life,even without a child as long as i have the man i want to grow old with...

I don't want grow old alone, I want someone who will love me until the day we die. Cheesy, huh? But true. Anyway, if I were you, I would not give up on love just because I did not succeed one time. Maybe there is someone else that is destined for you. You just have to find her. Never give up on love because sometimes the one who is destined for you is just right around the corner. If the one you love doesn't love you back, move on. It is ok. You will find love, maybe not now, but soon. Goodluck!

I believe that is very stupid to give up if you were cheated or rejected because life is full of errors. Only once you overcome those errors and move on you can get on with life. Although the story is kind of different if you make a vow and got separated for any reason, then I guess you should follow your promise because if you can't keep one you will regret or loose trustworthy in yourself.

I failed in relationship once. and i was broken-hearted, crying a lot, and very disappointed. but though it had happened to me, i just thought to myself, maybe he is just no good to me. because if he was good for me, then he would have not hurt me that bad. i just moved on and carried on with life until i accidentally fell in love again, and my heart happily accepted it too. i'm still in the same relationship now. so for me, i can't really tell (i mayb do, i may not)...because sometimes heart and mind won't just go the same way. and we never know what comes along in our way tomorrow. so maybe, just keep your heart open :)

There is a saying, It is better to experience love and lost, than not to experience love at all. I have been cheated, I have been mistreated by my exes. Despite all that, I never lost hope that my true love is going to find me. Now I am happily married for 13 years. I know the journey doesn't stop. We still have a long way to go. But we choose to love rather than loose each other.

I will remain single forever because thats what i choose. It may be hard and even impossible for some how feel that they need another person to co depend on to understand. But not all how are single are so because they had no choice. We have choices. Many are single because we love that. It what we choose. Try it for awhile and see for your self how peacful and plesant life can be.

Hi abj! I hope that you will follow your heart and your dreams and it will take you whereever it is you want it too! I have remained single and that is the way things worked out for me and I am not sorry about it! I was going to get married twice, but stopped it both times because I didn't feel it was the right thing for me to do either time. Sometimes thing just don't work out the way you think they will and you have to make a choice in life. I am happy with the choices that I made and don't regret not marrying! But, that is what was best for me! Not everyone thinks the same. All my friends that got married ended up getting divorced, some even more than once. Just follow your heart, use your head and hope you make the right choices!

Your topic seems confusing... Do you mean you failed all your life??? If that's the case you'll right being single forever. But for me life full of surprises, you'll never know when where and who is the right one for you. It happens in a snap that you feels she/he's the one for you.

There will be always another person available to share your love. You need not waste your life to prove your love for some particular person. It is quite normal to think like that in your teens but mental maturity will give you broad view on love and it will take some time.

No that's a wrong conclusion. Never fall into such conclusions. It happens to many people in life. Some relationships don't work. That doesn't mean you should lose your faith in love. It means that its time to move on and time to find the perfect bride. I have met lot of people who gone through such problems, but then they found their dream bride and have now got settled. Don't worry. There must be someone special for you.

There are many times that I was heartbroken but I take them as experiences that made me a strong person. Why should I sulk and be melancholic about those sad experience? I'm glad I moved on because I'm married now.

IMO the main thing wrong with the dating game is the attempt to find the "right" person. Don't limit yourself. Start with a number of relationships. As time goes by you will see which of them is more suitable to you. If you'd like more advice - contact me.

Maybe your are in such frustrating situation right now,but I always believe that time can cure your heartbreak finally.People who didn't succeeded in love can still discover another true love in the future as time goes by.In my opinion,a failure experience in love just has proved that who you appeal to right now is not your Mr or Miss right.Compared with endless entanglement or even divorce unhappily in the future,it is a good thing for you to get rid of your false love.So think in another way, it is a new beginning for you to search for a real true love rather than a bad ending ultimately.Cheer up! Tomorrow is another day with new hope! :)

No... I don't have to be dependent on somebody just to continue living normally. If he's not meant to be with me no matter how we try it, it's always possible that I can find somebody else as much as he can. Just be positive in everything you do or it will slowly kill you. Don't blame other people to why you became broken because we all have the right to choose what we want to achieve. Remain strong and be happy.

"just because"..., well this is the most important thing in almost everyone's life. I have 2-3 big fails, mostly, because my own fault, but I will not give up. Every person on this planet has his/her own missing partner, so don't lose hope, search and fight with all your effort for your love, because It makes your life SENSIBLE!

Ask your self will you find love if you close your heart for it? I hope this question will make you realize not to quit in loving I know love hurt I know that because I felt that 2 times in my whole life. as long as you love a person or you still have your heart inside your body you should never ever quit in loving because life with out love is like living alone. try to understand that if your love one leave you then she is not the one for you there is someone who really destined for you. Is it ok for you if you live with the girl you love but never love you back well that is wrong because if really want to be happy and have the true love and relation both person must love each other and not only one sided love. if you know that girl love you and she just encounter difficulties in your relation then fight for her and don't let her hand slip to yours. But if not then set her free that is the most noble thing a person can do for the one he/she love if you truly love the person. I you Don't succeed on your love one then that person is not meant for you just believe that there will be the time that you will find the right one for your, We should not look for the perfect person for us having the right one is the only love we need.

hi abj..it's not a good idea for me cos being hurt is part of life and this will help you to become a better person.. have a nice day!

love is strange all i can really say you got to enjoy it while it lasts