boy/girl relations in school
By babyanna
@babyanna (1216)
China
June 19, 2010 1:09am CST
What do you think about boy/girl relations in school.Are you for it or against it and why?
8 responses
@snowqueen200802 (1463)
• United States
19 Jun 10
I thinks it's OK just as long as they hav supervised from their moms, and dads.
Take care
Snow
@snowqueen200802 (1463)
• United States
12 Jul 10
Thanks for responding back to me and I enjoyed our little chat.
Take care
Snow
@babyanna (1216)
• China
12 Jul 10
Hi,Snow!
Yeah,I think so,too.I just hope that some Chinese parents and teachers can be that open.Some of them think it's a taboo for students falling in love at such a young age.And they will even interfere.But the situation is kinda getting better here now.They are seeing it in a more open way.
Thanks for sharing!Have a nice day!
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@meemingNEW (2226)
• Philippines
19 Jun 10
I'm just neutral. Not against it at all. I mean, I don't mind other people's business as much as minding my own. It's a person's right to choose what he/she wants just as long as both of them conform to the standards of society. If one lives in a conservative country such as here in the Philippines, there's nothing wrong when a boy and girl dates in school just as long as they don't show too much affection that may distract other student's attention or say values and morals.
@meemingNEW (2226)
• Philippines
19 Jun 10
I really don't understand why teachers can be so strict and harsh when two persons develop a kind of mutual feeling such as falling in love with each other. Its happens to all of us regardless of age. Its just a matter of them to guide students to a proper/right way of handling that situation and a relationship.
@babyanna (1216)
• China
12 Jul 10
Hi,meemingNEW!
Sorry for responding late.I was preparing for my final exam,so I haven't logged in Mylot for a long time.
I don't know why teachers interfere.It just happens here in China.The scores are the priority.If the students don't get the scores they used to get,the teachers and the parents will try every means to talk them into breakups.It's really ridiculous,as far as I am concerned.But there is nothing we can do,I mean.We have a large population and the most important thing to parents and teachers is that we can get high education and get a good job in the futurer.Not everyone can be enrolled into the universities,however.So we have to study very hard.The other things,like love,should stay aside.
@reckon21 (3479)
• Philippines
20 Jun 10
Boy and girl relationship in school is find as long that they are old enough to know about love. But most of this young teens if left unsupervised will do some mistakes that may destroy their bright future. If some parents and some teachers were strict it's because they are worried and just concern of what the possible thing to happen with the young lovers.
I understand their strictness...because they been through with that life before and they already knew what could be the possible scenario if young teens went in to a relationship at a young stage. Most of this young people will fell madly in love and sometimes it's hard to control it.
@luisadannointed (6328)
• Philippines
19 Jun 10
The world says its fine! But I believe we have the seasons of life.
And we as student we have to value are educations and the money that our parents save for us to have a better life. We have responsibilities to be the best that we can be, and a boy/girl relationship follows after you graduated.
And besides why taking someone does not belongs to you. One person are destined only to have one person as their other half.
Is it much better to prepare yourself first,,,in every area of your life before you commit into a relationship. Isn't much better and sweet if we patiently wait for our time?
A boy can ask somebody's hearts when its knows that he is ready to take responsibilities and knows if the person's life he wants to fall in love with him will never put in a risky situation and will not hinder to achieve its own dreams its bright future, and when he has his own money to spend for their date not from his father's wallet. and even though he has a job, he'd rather give it to his parents first to make them proud of him and as a sign that he value them.
And as for the girls I'd rather chose a man that know how to wait and endure life.
Love is not just feelings,,,it should be base on commitment, it takes a lot thinking...because if that boy love s you he will think first if you can be the best that you can be if you accept him in to your life.
AjA! God bless. Save the best for last.
@babyanna (1216)
• China
12 Jul 10
Hi,luisadannointed!
Yeah,I quite agree with you that we have certain phases of life,that we should study when we are young,and we should develop relationships after we have graduated and have the ability to take care of ourselves and even the others.But the problem is,now,not everyone finds somebody for a commitment,for being with each other for the rest of his/her life.I have seen many people around me.They just find somebody because of loneliness,emptiness,or even fun.Just having somebody around is what they want.They don't really care about how they feel about their partners or how their partners feel about them.I have once heard that some have different requirements for their contemporary partners and permanent partners.For contemporary ones,they want them to be cool,handsome.But for permanent ones,they have more strict requirements.So not every relationship is serious,I think.
@sweetloveforeve (13120)
• Portugal
9 Jul 10
im for it bcs there is while we are young that we learn things better^^ why dont have a relation and enjoy life while we are still young? we must enjoy life^^ so for sure everyone should have a relation while in school^^ i didnt have and i wished i had it^^ is while we are young that we feel passions better and enjoy it better ^^ why wouldnt we have it while in school? it doesnt matter where to love. love just happens
@babyanna (1216)
• China
12 Jul 10
Hi,sweetloveforeve!
We are definitely passionate when we are in school and yeah,sometimes it's not a bad thing to have some experiences about love so when we step out into the society,we can handle relationships better.
Thanks for sharing!Have a wonderful day!
@princess8881 (1630)
• South Korea
19 Jun 10
its so normal:) thats all i can say... as long as they are not affecting anyone...well maybe if they are expressing to much of public affection.... but who knows?maybe when we fall inlove we might also do the craziest thing we couls never imagine:)
so just never mind them..lol im sure you dont wanna get your day ruin... by seeing sweet people around:) just feel the love around you..lol:)