do you regret that you got married ?
@blackflorinel (475)
Romania
June 19, 2010 1:48am CST
Well maybe you have something to say , that at any moment to you regret that you got married ? i whant to get married but i whant to know if any have regreted geting married and not wayt a little longer ?
10 responses
@princess8881 (1630)
• South Korea
19 Jun 10
here i am again...lol well its fine that you feel nervous wanting to get married...lol im sure theres a lot of things going in your mind... coz yeah of course getting married is not an easy thing...
but if you will totally embrace it... then we will find yourself ready for anything that might come:) as long as you are happy being with her... i think thats the biggest secret...to stay happy with her...:)
but of course if your not sure about it... then just slow down:) and think about of those plans that you made:) and when you are ready to make it in reality...
anyway your girl is so lucky:) for she finds a man... that wanna be with for the rest of her life:)...your the man:) goodluck
@se7enthbird (8307)
• Philippines
20 Jun 10
i am married for seven years now and so far so good. if you are planning to get married why the regrets are you thinking about.... why not think about on how to make it work. a marriage is a two way relationship it needs adjustment and learning at the same time. you need a very open communicative and you also need to think about yourself but your partner as well. if this can be settled in a mature way then the marriage will be a good one. in getting married you need to be financially ready and emotionally ready, for walking the path of marriage there are a lot of things will coma along your way. you need to deal with it holding hands. good luck. think about what can make it work now on regret.
@med889 (5941)
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20 Jun 10
This year I am getting engaged and already the fear of marriage is very much present in my life though, I think one need to be wise before getting married to do not regret later, we can be intelligent but we need to understand the compromise, the sacrifices, and everything else before tying the knot.
@ninafrerichs (48)
• Netherlands
19 Jun 10
I have been married for a year and a half now and we have been together for about 7 years. I am not regretting the fact that I got married to this caring, sweet man. I now cary his last name and have a little girl with him so I can honestly say I am happy!
@dreamkeeper (455)
• United States
19 Jun 10
One thing for sure i did not regret getting married because and foremost i really prayed to GOD for almost 1 year that He will give me the mr. right guy for me and then He give me my husband. If you do not want to regret why you get married first pray for your partner to be and by that you will know that person is the right person for you. Life is not a bed of roses there are times that we experience thorns. It is during trial,temptations, problems,challenges in life but you know what the more you and your partner will encounter challenges and problems in your life the more and the stonger your relationship will be.Make GOD as the foundation of your marriage so that you will have a stronger foundation.
@meemingNEW (2226)
• Philippines
19 Jun 10
First of all, I'm not yet married so I'm not really fitting to answer this question. But I guess in my opinion, marriage is not something that you decide or do overnight. It takes time to decide whether you're ready to take that big step in your life to tie the know with someone considering all the responsibilities and vows that comes with it..
So if one regrets being married, then I think he/she has to over think why he got married in the first place if he can't make it through now with whatever problems they're facing.
@nanayangel (7879)
• Philippines
19 Jun 10
Hi there Black Florinel!
Well, I never regret that I got married. There are times when we face problems, we have our differences, and we even argue at times but I am happy and I wouldn't have it any other way.
@reetu3 (262)
• India
19 Jun 10
no i didn't regret that i got married....it's all your way of looking life it's not that if you are married you will have problem who guarantees if you are single you will be happy every thing has its own positive and negative but i can say that in my marriage i'd more positive than negative.....