how many of us think life is ugly without gir friend or boy friend

@sumit057 (227)
India
June 19, 2010 11:49pm CST
During course of life we grow from child school to college come across friends and finally end up with a relationship but there is a life before we take the responsibilty.do u think life is ugly or waste without having friends aroud you
9 responses
@xeroeight (1060)
• Philippines
20 Jun 10
yes living on this planet without life is boring and not interesting. I know that because I am a loner back when I was in high school and my first month in college. I am not that friendly all my friends are also my classmate and even we are in the same room I still don't have some great times, boding with them because I want to be alone, after several weeks I been forcefully invited my classmate to a place without my knowledge that she is trying to drag me in a organization and there I still feel alone and not having quality time to my org member but step by step I manage to be more socialize and manage to be friends with them. life is really amazing if you are having quality time with your friend. Well sometimes I feel like I want to be alone maybe that's normal because I came from that solo world of mine.
@agv0419 (3022)
• Philippines
20 Jun 10
I don't think so because I'm still happy even if I'm unattached. I can do anything I want and I don't want someone controlling me. It really depends on a person how they there life.
@sumit057 (227)
• India
20 Jun 10
i completely agree with you,without friends life is rather incomplete
• Philippines
23 Jun 10
life is not ugly if you dont have a girl friend or boyfriend..for me life with out string attach is more easier,i mean no complication,simple right
@sumit057 (227)
• India
23 Jun 10
hmm ok
• Philippines
23 Jun 10
having friends, yes life is ugly without friends. but the girlfriend or boyfriend (the romantic relationship); that's a different story. i used to have a very close friend who thinks he could die if he would spend a day and he realize he doesn't have someone to love. but anyway, he found someone he really truly love then broke up with the girl after about a year and then the next thing i heard, he was married.
@eil_noz (963)
• Philippines
20 Jun 10
Hello again Summit! I had a wrong idea on my first response so I need to answer again.lol... I guess not having a boyfriend can be boring but I still think that being single was somehow good still because there's no boyfriend whom you need to divide your time with no boyfriend that can distract you from studies. But having a boyfriend would somehow be good to have if I'm already be graduated from college where both of us were already matured enough I guess.
@sumit057 (227)
• India
20 Jun 10
i feel when one starts thinking like dividing time for friends then they are no more your friends at all rather we start feeling as a burden in our life,what i feel is friends are one whom we don't care much about but still enjoy every bit when we are together :P
@eil_noz (963)
• Philippines
20 Jun 10
Do you mean not having girlfriend/ boyfriend in this discussion? So you mean like pals in here or what? Hmm... I'll comment on about friends. I strongly agree that it's ugly or rather boring not to have friends as we go on to our stages of life. As we all know no man is an island. friends were good source of advises and opinions as to know who you really are.
@sumit057 (227)
• India
20 Jun 10
yes i mean here is any friend weather it is he/she, do we really need someone on our journey of life
• Portugal
13 Jul 10
yes life is not good without friends at all^^ if we dont have friends for what do we live for? thats a very lonely life^^ also without bf is very sad too i think we all need to feel loved and cared to have a happy life^^ life is meaningless without friends and someone that love us right? anyway we all have at least someone that cares for us what makes our life not that unhappy even when we have problems in it right?^^
@abj163 (1037)
• India
20 Jun 10
hi sumit i think u r from india if yes me too.i dont think life is ugly without girlfriend.because if iam happy with staying single then whats the problem.it depends on ur thinking that how you take situation in your mind.if you are taking it serious then obviously it feels ugly,if you are not taking it seriously then its a nice thing. i think having a female friend is better solution better than girlfriend.because as a friend we can do everything with her without any relationship. she will help us we will help her.and the thing is we wont have any tension of dating.we can go to hotels malls pubs with female friend with whole group btw this is my thinking and it is not compulsory that u must agree with this.
• United States
20 Jun 10
it can be from different points of view. I think if you have a bf/gf don't let them hold you back from living your life fully. If anything go out and do everything that comes to mind no matter what it might be. not saying go cheat anything but have fun. It is possible to have a good life without a bf/gf if not better but life wouldn't be ugly.
• Indonesia
20 Jun 10
hi, i think god made us with a mate.for me, it`s very boring if we don`t have a girlfriend. We can learn how to manage a relationship worked and it`s hard. it`s not all about adult thing it`s about heart. but don`t waste to much time with our mate, don`t forget that we have a relationship with friends that we need to managed.